Lets Talk Roots

Why should Karmelo’s alleged past matter more than Austin’s? Bennie Ray breaks down the difference and explains why he doesn’t believe the two should be viewed the same way. Bennie Ray

Bennie Ray reflects on how ego, proving himself, and always trying to “stand on business” slowed down his growth as a young man.

Bennie Ray explains why he believes both young men faced consequences for their decisions.

Bennie Ray explains why the “stand on business” mentality can lead Black men into life-changing consequences. Sometimes walking away is the smarter move.

Bennie Ray argues that some people were more focused on Carmelo Anthony getting off than holding him accountable for what happened. Do you agree?

Lourinzo Scott Real healing starts when you stop trying to do everything on your own and allow God to guide you. Growth takes grace, forgiveness, and a willingness to change.

Lourinzo Scott explains why reacting emotionally can cost you more in the long run. Sometimes the smarter move is to stay calm, think ahead, and make the decision that protects your future.

Lourinzo Scott says one reason they never got counseling was because they lacked resources, guidance, and mature married couples around them. The people in his circle couldn’t relate to what he was trying to save.

Lourinzo Scott says they connected through shared pain, but after marriage, the red flags and unresolved trauma started to show.