May Towler

May Towler


I am so excited for this Hybrid Workshop! 🀩
Aroma Reset + Young Living Oils Workshop = a love relationship! πŸ₯°

The power of the sense of smell is critical to our survival.
It's plays a huge role when it comes to our other senses and they way we store memories. Usually, we recall a childhood memory by an aroma that was familiar to us, like baked cookies or oranges. On the other side of it, we can also recall traumatic events in our life, by the trigger of an aroma that was closely or related to the situation at that time.

Essential oils are the only molecules small enough to reach past the blood brain barriers and into these memories.

The Aroma Reset uses the friendship of Aroma from pure and therapeutic oils, plus a few simple steps to help you identify, process and release an intense or heighten feeling or emotion, that's presently bothering you.

This has made so much more sense to me, since incorporating both puzzle pieces in one Class. πŸ˜πŸŒΏπŸ‘ƒπŸ’†β€β™€οΈ

It was just months ago that Jeanette Clark and I had a view Coaching sessions together!

Months later she would call and ask me, about the Certification process and my opinion on a 2 Day Intensive or 12 Week Online.

Now, she stands as a Certified Practitioner!!!

I am so proud of her for pushing through her struggles, to BE a blessings to others!

Each of us has a message just waiting to BE shared!

The Aroma Freedom Technique can help you make a Message out of a mess, and Develop the Messenger in the Process!!!

Jeanette! You Rock Star, you!!!
Love you, girl! πŸ€—πŸ˜πŸ€©

How are you practicing being emotionally available for yourself?

What are ways you can BE emotionally available for your loved ones?

I remember a time when I felt alone, but had no idea why... I had prayed, sang and sat in pondering what was going on inside me, for what seemed like hrs...
Where was this feeling coming from? No answers. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
After a while, I felt a Presence sit right next to me. I knew it was God, but I didn't know what to say.
I had known Him for Father, but a father is not Who I wanted to talk to at that moment.
He didn't speak. He just sat there quietly and after what seemed like an awkward but still ok moment, He bumped me on the shoulder and I felt inside of me that it was my Q of Him saying " I Am here now, what's up "?

That's what did me in! 😭
I little bumped shoulder to shoulder!!! Like my brother ( just more, like a real friend.
No words, just acceptance and sacred heart space to allow me to empty myself of what I still had no name for or answers to.

That was an experience New and Unique to me!

Why am I sharing this with you?
When you learn to deal with what's going on inside of you - BEing emotionally available for self, you'll learn to BE compassionate and aware that sometimes your loved ones, don't need your position or title you hold as a family member.

They need a friend. Someone who's willing to hold sacred heart space for them to feel what they're feeling, without excuses, answers or consequences. You don't need to know what's going on, unless they Feel Like sharing.

Just BE and maybe give a gentle nudge on someone's shoulder πŸ˜‰
What is your Brain - Heart and Dreams been telling you ? πŸ˜‰
I needed to see this before bed. I remember those days! 😭
Even now just watching these the waterworks will flow everytime ☺
Yes, Yes!!!
This is one thing I miss growing up with my grandma.
She seem to know what herbs worked for pink eye, for cramping, stiff muscles and cleansings of course (detox).
All were fresh and most could be the same herbs and spices you use to season your foods and have in your cupboards right now πŸ˜‰.

I haven't gotten to the level of patience for growing herbs again, plus having a green thumb with help the process πŸ˜…

#letherbsspeak #Godshelps4You #natureknowstruths
Just keep doing it! Shake up the place with the Presence you bring! 🀩
While you're trying to help others and keep life flowing, remember to BE kind to yourself first!

Love Yourself as you would like to BE loved!

Find clarity of where you are at, where do you want be and how can you get there. Influencers need to operate at their optimal if they want to finish the mission!

I AM an Encourager, Grace giver, Voter of Victories, Human Tree seeder, light/dark soul explorer & discoverer. I AM a Coach, Practitioner and Facilitator. I have tools, resources and a special set of skills and I am not afraid to use them =D

I AM an Army Veteran and a wife to a retired 20 yr Army Combat Veteran. The military has been a great part of my life, so helping Veterans who live with me

Operating as usual


Great Day My World 🌎!

What happens when you set Your Mind and Heart to CREATE and HAVE a Great Day!!!

I AM Great and Full for every WIN πŸ₯°

" There IS ALL Ways a BEtter Way "

No more pushing
No more pulling
No more of no more...

🌱 Now, YES Please and Yes More, Thank you 🌱

Photos from May Towler's post 06/06/2022

Great Day My World 🌎!

What happens when you save rain water?

You get to moisten all these beauty's for 2-3 days!!!

This is 1 way of DOing Oola MY Way!

Work with what you ALL & Ready have at home and Make It Work for You!

Use whatever tool, resource or hack works for you to get you moving, towards Your Goal for this day!

Each day is Brand New So, - Start New!!!

My Playlist pumps me UP, specially on the days, adulting is a b*tch.

Log ALL your Action for that Day and that's Your proof of How bad *ss you ARE!!!

I Vote YOUR Victory My 🌎!

Photos from May Towler's post 06/02/2022

Great Day My World 🌎!

When I know how to mix my own version of Coffee!
I am usually not a daily Coffee drinker.

In the past, I used to drink a 24oz cup coffee or Black Tea, everyday.

Now, I enjoy a 8-16oz a few times a month.

The Rule is: " for every 1 Cup of Coffee, drink 2 Cups of Water ".

16oz of water with ACV πŸ‘
16oz of light Coffee with creamer πŸ‘
24oz of INfused hot/warm water πŸ‘
32oz of Room Temperature water πŸ‘

88oz of liquids is 1 of My Daily Action Steps.

What are the little things You CAN do Today, to help You get back INto Your most agreed healthy Self in 6 months or 1yr from now?

Let's do this together πŸ’ͺ

Photos from May Towler's post 05/26/2022

My 1st time πŸ‘€ a baby deer up close 😍

My poor hubby had to stop cutting the grass, because he was afraid she may run off, before her mom gets back.

The fox has been around lately, so hopefully her Mom has somewhere safer to hide her.

I would love to keep her, but we already have 2 dogs and chickens and NJ most likely has a policy against it, πŸ˜…

Awe, Nature is so Amazing!!! 🀩

What Amazing thing have you seen while you were minding your chores or To Do List?


When your baby's have baby's 😍


Our World Requires for US to BE here Today, Now in this Present Moment! πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›


Alright, My World I require your Uni-Verse-All View Expression! =)

I was told to Ask this on my Personal Profile ... but/and since it's hubby's Birth-Day today, I'll leave his Celebration post UP for today!

So here We Are - You and Me πŸ€ͺ

Anyway, I have been working with a Business Coach and she has given me a few Assignments.

Of course, I AM DOing those that feel easier to me 1st AND, this is the 1 I been avoiding for a bit, ba-cause I was waiting for a good time to feel safe to do so....

YYYEEAAHHHH,,,, swerving through my own blockers!πŸ˜…

You and I know procrastination gets us in trouble...

Anyway, so I appreciate hers and your Accountability to get it βœ”! 😁

So, before I ask; I Thank you and Appreciate you for your Honesty and Willingness to support me, at this Stage of my Journey! πŸ₯°

🌳 This is My Assignment: For Today's Assignment (that makes my belly feel shaky) is to Ask people on my Social Media -

What do you Think of Me?
What 3 Strengths have you noticed?

Drop it in the Comments section Please and Thank you! πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡


Remember when they used say, Are you digging for gold?

If Only it had been that easy!!! πŸ˜‚

Yet, there's Truth to digging " You gotta dig A little Deeper ", as mama otti would sing. - princess and the frog. 🐸

There's still So much more INside of Us waiting to BE UNpacked, Unraveled, and INnerStood.

We were made for so much more than just the white picket fence dream, we were feed through our TV shows, and our family settlings.

"Tomorrow is not guaranteed"

So what are you willing to do today, that moves you needle forward to Resurrect your Personal buried goals & dreams?

I love my family and I AM grateful for our willingness to seesaw, a give and take as we discover and explore life together.

Yet, my Soul longs for My World 🌎, Yes, YOU are IN my World, therefore you are... 😍

To feel more deeply, desire higher and BE willing to expand even greater than b4.

If this is you, let's chat. No strings attached.

I chose to have REAL Deep Me-INing-Full (you and me, remembering my Conscious Language) Conversations, about what brought you here to earth and how are you here to help humanity move forward?

Conversations are a 2 way highway, and we can always agree to disagree And yet, I chose to know how your puzzle pieces and mind Can work 2-gather 🀩

No link to share!

You chose to Speak with me, just DM me


It is Time for us to move ON to Greater things that have been waiting for us to Reclaim our God Already Given Authority! πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

Let's GO change our World! 😎



When you know who you are,,,
You'll bloom in a unlikely place and you will not go unnoticed 🌷

Shine beauty shine πŸ’ƒ


Great Day! πŸ₯³

Today is the Start of my Oola Challenge in my OYEA Community Group!
Today, I AM choosing to share it here on my page, because why not?

We can all use more Oola in our Lives! =D

What is Oola?
Oola is a State of Awesomeness - BEing, FEELing and ACTing in a way that balances our 7 plates! =D

Would like to know more about what is Oola and what it stands for, check

You would like to try out specific Oola Challenges, try out:


So, for today's Challenge πŸ‘‡

Day 1: Little things can totally change a day.

Your patience, your smile, and your appreciation can easily turn someone else's bad day into a better one.
Today's is to do what we like to call, a Random Act of Oola.

🌱 Buy flowers and leave them on a random porch, buy a coffee for the car behind you, smile at someone who cuts you off in traffic, do something that will make someone's day a little easier.
Let someone wear a smile that you gave them!

Once you've completed today's , post the above graphic on social media with the hashtag to help encourage others joining us for this 21 day OolaChallenge.

We hope this challenge changes your life, if even for the moment. We'd love to hear about your stories or any transformations that happen throughout the challenge.

We are grateful to have you on this journey with us,
Team Oola

🌱 Report how your Challenge went for today in any form you like in the Comments section =D

May Towler updated their address. 04/18/2021

May Towler updated their address.

May Towler updated their address.



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AND That's why we miss eachother 😍

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Our Planet requires a Network of BEings of Light and Love to aid us into our next Level of Transformation for all πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

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Let go with fun and ease and move forward πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

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BE angry and sin not.

Yet. Anger turns INTO Action.

So how are we chosing to shift from anger into action without sin - missing the mark.

Our heart knows the answers!

Love is usually the answer for ALL, and sometimes it takes progress getting there 1st.

Grace Can BE the umbrella under the umbrellas.

I chose action from the heart (place) of Grace.

This gives me permission to see that I AM neither right or wrong and allow Grace to BE the filter to See that in others and the choices they make.

What action are you chosing Today to shift your anger INTO Joyful Action? πŸ˜‰

United WE Stand πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

β€œIf you’re not angry, you’re either a stone, or you’re too sick to be angry. You should be angry. You must not be bitter. Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. It doesn’t do anything to the object of its displeasure. So use that anger, yes. You write it. You paint it. You dance it. You march it. You vote it. You do everything about it. You talk it. Never stop talking it.”


God is the ONLY PrEssence and Power Acting around me πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›


BE like Elsa and sing it, sing it loud πŸ˜…

🎢 Let them Go, Let them go, don't hold them back anymore, let them go, LET them GGGGOOOOO 🎢


I just had to share it here, because it was way too funny for me 🀣

I asked this question in my Free Community Group and so far responses have been about Cleaning Products!!! πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

I almost googled to see if 7 generation also made cleansing items, 🀣🀣🀣


Nothing - Noticing what has been is a lesson and count it, ALL IS Good for our remembering πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

Photos from May Towler's post 10/17/2020

It's Time for Our Spirits to Arise to SHINE God's Glory IN OUR Planet


Yet, I chose to See Perfection and Vote yours and our Victory so we can remain in our own personal Sovereigntys πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

Timeline photos 10/15/2020

Have you found your Win-Win Solution yet?

Have you heard of BEing Co-Dependent?

Yea, it ruins many relationships, even the ones with our children

How about living from a Co-Empowerment lifestyle?

We all Co-Operate and Co-Create Solutions that ARE a Win-Win ONLY for All in Our Homes πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›


We change OUR perception for Ourselves and everything around US Changes!

BE Motivated by Benefit! πŸ€œπŸŒ·πŸ€›

This is such a powerful visual of just how important perception is. You always have a choice in how you look at things. Shared from Bruce H. Lipton, Ph.D


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Our Story

AFT is Aroma Freedom Technique.
It is a step-by-step process for identifying and releasing negative thoughts, feelings and memories that interfere with reaching our goals and dreams.
AFT is meant to be used as a way to set a person’s emotional energy flowing in a positive direction, towards growth and expansion rather than contracting in fear, doubt and paralysis.
It uses Young Living Essential Oils to trigger a permanent shift in how we view ourselves and the world.

Betty Towler is a Certified Aroma Freedom Technique Practitioner loves sharing information about Essential Oils. She has a sweet spot for people struggling to find their True Identity and the reason they were put on this Earth. The vision is to see as many people set free from their own mental chains and release them to flow into their true Radiance.
Mother of 3, G-ma of 2, Army Veteran and a wife to a retired 20 yr Army Veteran. The military has been a great part of their life, so helping Veterans who struggle with mental and physical challenges would a Mission and a Passion very dear to their hearts.



Aroma Freedom Techniques, Life Upgrade Coaching and Sacred Body Language Translations, Bio Optic Holography Facilitation, Conscious Language Education, Oola Life Challenges


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