pleasureroots

Want to spice up date night?

This deck is fun, educational, and imaginative!

The first pic is really the only proof you need 🤤😍

thanks for creating such a profound game that enhanced our date night and introduced us to some new pleasurable activities and sensations!! 🤩💓

Plus, it completely turned us on and led to an AMAZING night!

Go buy this.

As someone who has sugar addiction issues, banana pancakes are a HUGE alternative that still taste sweet and delicious but without high fructose corn syrup

There’s also bananas inside the pancakes too! 🤤😍

I know what you’re thinking…
What a beautiful place to do yoga - how calm, warm and peaceful 😌

And yes, when I took this picture I had every intention of doing yoga in a calm and peaceful way
But that’s not what happened…🤨

Instead, I spent a few minutes in child’s pose crying, then stared into the fire mesmerized for who knows how long, then grabbed a pen and paper and began to write ✍🏽

My writing brought more tears to the surface and although I wrote furiously, I have no idea why I was crying 😭

Anyone ever experience that? Crying and you don’t know why?

I’m here to tell you that you’re not the only one and it doesn’t mean your broken

Crying has been a part of my self-expression since I can remember - I cry when I’m…
Sad😢
Happy🥲
Furious🤬
Frustrated 😫
Uncertain 🥺
In pain 🤕
Overjoyed 😭😅
Org@sming 🤤

ALL THE TIME!

And there is nothing broken inside of me
There is nothing broken inside of you
We are cut from the same cloth
A cloth that blankets the world in feeling
The feelings that everyone else cannot feel

So if you cry for no reason, know that there is nothing wrong with you and you are not alone💕

If you go through bouts of energetic shifts and you feel that lump in your throat or that knot in your belly, then I encourage to please…

Let it go

Whatever you’re feeling - whether it’s your own sorrow, the weight of the world, the impact of the hurricane, the pain of war, or nothing at all…

It’s okay

Just let it go 🥹

There’s only 9 spots left!

If you been longing to do something for yourself
Waiting for that perfect moment to finally say YES
Wanting to feel sexy, confident and powerful
Hoping there’s a some sign to let you know it’s okay

This.
Is.
Your.
Sign.

🤗✨

More info and tickets available in link in bio

Only 9 spots left!

Let’s cure the world 🤘🏽

Phase V: Turning my office into a Pleasure Space

I can finally breathe!!!

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been transitioning into a new home and it has been a whirlwind of emotions and experiences!

And I can finally breathe!

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The Pleasure Space isn’t 100% finished but it’s in a great place to finally show all of you 😍

The “finished” product as it were!

My new space feels cozy, warm, safe and comforting🥰

I can do yoga with plenty of space to move about🧎🏽‍♀️

I have all my books around me so I can reach for any one when I feel the urge to learn 📖📚

The rocks I’ve collected over the years are neatly and particularly organized on the window sill - each rock has it’s own place

It’s spacious yet insulated

It’s encompassing - like my mother’s womb - yet expansive

And most importantly...
It’s.
Just.
For.
Me.
💕

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Do you have struggle with finding time for yourself?

Are you stuck, unable to access your creativity?

Do you want to set better boundaries in your relationships?

Are you floating around “doing” for everyone else, except for yourself?

Do you feel like unhappy, yet unsure what would make you happy?

If you said YES to any of these, then your next step is right in this post...

If you want to find time for yourself, set and maintain boundaries and have more access to the pleasure in your life, then I invite you to join the Unleash Your Authentic Pleasure retreat!!

With the ability to join from the comfort of your home, this retreat can give the tools you need to create the life you want to have💕

Instead of feeling undervalued and shy
You can feel worthy and confident

Instead of silencing your own voice
You can speak freely and openly, with conscious language!

Instead of ALWAYS putting other first
You can finally say YES to you 🥰

Rebecca Reinhart and I are thrilled to offer this to women everywhere and hope to see you there.

Link to join is in my bio!

As I step back into creation and slowness, I’m am recreating my Feminine Ritual

Step into slowness
Walk into quiet
Stillness
Contemplation
Feeling
Understanding
Clarity
Love

Things have changed, yet some remain the same

Hello again, dear feminine
I’ve missed you
I’ve missed your nurturing touch
Your caring attitude
Your loving words

Let’s create together 🐋

The fig (sigh)

It’s a fig
The symbol of sensuality
Of sexuality
Even seemingly familiar
To my own sacredness
My own Temple
The fig is sweet and juicy
Milky, irresistible
The symbol of lust and desire
Passionate fires radiating out
The fibers reaching for the edges
Stringy, wrinkly
Lusciously connected
Just SEE the fig
Because you are the fig

Phase IV: turning my office in a Pleasure Space

For those that have been following along, you know how much I adore plants and vines and everything nature. 🍃🌼

In my last living space, my bedroom ended up being my pleasure space. I lived alone and it totally worked for me.

But now that I’m cohabiting with another, we need to make decisions together about our bedroom and other shared spaces. And the vines….my partner wasn’t super into. 😋

But it wasn’t an issue because we each have our own rooms now and we can decorate them however we want.

✨✨RELATIONSHIP TIP: Each of you have your own rooms so you can get some time away from one another and spend time with yourself. It’s SUPER helpful✨✨

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As I carefully and tediously move furniture around, staple vines into my ceiling and place moss on the bookshelves, I am reminded of my own Root Into Pleasure Immersion that I’ve held in this Facebook group twice this past year.

The free immersion takes the women of the group through creating their unique and customized self-pleasure date and one of the days is ALL about CRAFTING YOUR PLEASURE SPACE. 💕

Every book, every ornament, every piece of fake moss…

It all has its place.

This room is not just going to be my place of work, but my place of pleasure. And it’s important that I feel absolutely at home, comfortable and relaxed in it 😌

And it takes time and energy to do this work.

The meticulous stapling of every single vine, has also reminded me of the healing journey I’ve been on for the past several years. The journey that has brought me to all of you 🥰

Throughout this process, many things have not gone the way I thought they would...

👉🏽I’ve ran out of staples
👉🏽My arms have gotten tired
👉🏽I’ve found myself stapling in a pattern that ends up leaving open spaces and I’ve got to back thru them

All of these...obstacles, remind me of the ones I’ve faced in my healing journey of becoming sexually liberated.

Continued in comments 👇🏽

Phase II: turning my office into a pleasure space

I was never good with change growing up🥴

When I was a little girl, my sensitivity to the world came full force😤and my mother has told me stories of what is was like caring for me (though in my memory and mind, it seemed more like taming a wild beast)

Because of my extreme alertness - my daily life felt like a layer of skin had been peeled away and ALL the nerves were exposed, extra sensitive to temperature, to sounds, ton lights, to people🫨(and sometimes still does)

Every aspect of change would send me into a screaming fit of unbalanced fear, which likely seemed like a overly dramatic tantrum 😡

Every argument my parents had was felt deep inside of me and often was misconstrued for feelings of my own😮‍💨

And even the smallest of things..like when that little line on my sock was turned to the bottom of my foot, resulted in a catastrophic meltdown as I felt it was all just too much too handle😭

I know. It sounds unreal. It was not easy growing up.

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Recently, I experienced an artistic and therapeutic breathing exercise which allowed me to meet this younger, wilder, meltdown-y version of myself. She was about 5 years old and she was terrified😰

She didn’t know if the changes she experienced would bring her peace or another bombardement of emotions and overstimulation - as it was usually the latter 😫😖

So she learned to fear change, no matter what kind it was (which was actually quite intelligent if you think about it. She was only trying to protect herself) 😶‍🌫️and ever since, the fear of change has transformed into a major difficulty in dealing with changes as an adult, especially the big ones😮‍💨

When I met my 5 yr old self during this exercise, I held her close and told her that I understood why she was so scared of change. I finally understood her method of reacting to it and recognized her actions for survival and not as something broken that needed to be fixed…

It turns out, all she ever wanted was acknowledgement and safety 🥺💕

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As I continue to work thru the phases of this physical move into my new home, my 5 yr old self has returned🫨😭😤🥺

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