With Mrs B

The most important question you may ever ask isn’t “How do I do this?”

It’s:

“Will you support me?”
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So many of us try to carry everything alone. We convince ourselves we should be able to figure it out, fix it, push through it, or handle it without help.
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But real transformation rarely happens in isolation.
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Whether you’re working on your health, your relationships, your mindset, your business, or simply becoming the person you know you’re capable of being, invite others into the journey.
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Ask for support.
Ask for what you need.
Let people love you.
Let people show up for you.
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One of the biggest reasons I created the Build A Life You Love community was so that no Life Builder has to do this alone. We get to learn together, grow together, celebrate together, and support one another through the hard seasons too.
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Because the truth is, community changes everything.

What support do you need to ask for today? 💙

THE BODY KEEPS SCORE. ✔️
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I had planned to share a different “ mistake” for today’s post.
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But life had other plans.
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Recording this video from bed while dealing with a painful bout of diverticulitis, + it felt dishonest not to talk about the lesson staring me in the face right now.😢
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One of the biggest mistakes I’ve made over the years is believing I could ignore my body’s signals + make up for it later.
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Skip the water.
Ignore the stress.
Put off the walk.
Push through the fatigue.
Tell myself I’ll get back on track tomorrow.
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Until one day, tomorrow arrives with consequences.
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The truth is, our bodies are always communicating with us.
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And when we ignore the whispers long enough, they eventually become shouts.
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I knew I felt off. I kept going. For too long.
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This experience has reminded me that health + wellness isn’t built through massive efforts or occasional bursts of motivation.
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It’s built through minimum viable habits.
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The small things.
The boring things.
The things we do consistently enough that they become part of who we are.
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Because it’s almost always easier to honor our bodies today than it is to repair the damage tomorrow. Trust me. I have learned that the hard way.

A reminder for me.
Maybe a reminder for you, too.👇
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Your body is talking. Are you listening? ❤️

Day 4/30 | Building a Life You Love

4 rules I’ve committed to following because they’ve completely changed my life:
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1. Tell yourself the truth.
2. Stop trying to control everything.
3. Keep small promises to yourself.
4. Take ownership for your life.
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None of these are flashy.
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None of them are complicated.
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And they are not always easy.
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But over time, they’ve helped me create more peace, confidence, freedom, + alignment than any quick fix ever could.

Building a life you love isn’t about one giant breakthrough.

It’s about the daily choices that shape who you’re becoming.

Which rule speaks to you most?

I used to believe a lot of things that simply aren’t true anymore.
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I used to believe control would keep me safe.
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I used to believe changing my circumstances would change my life.
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I used to believe my peace depended on everyone else being okay.
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I used to believe my worth had to be earned.
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I used to believe transformation happened in giant breakthrough moments.
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I used to believe God was waiting for me to figure it all out.

And….

Experience, faith, failure, healing, and growth changed my mind.
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The woman I am today is living proof that sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is question the stories we’ve been carrying + choose new ones.

I’d love to know…

What’s something you used to believe that you’ve since changed your mind about?

Day 2/30 | Let me Reintroduce Myself!
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I’m Danielle Boquette aka Mrs. B.
Founder of With Mrs. B.
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Professional background - nearly 30 years as an HR professional. My passion has always been connecting people with potential.
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I’m married to Mr. B. and we have a blended family of 7 adult children (his, mine, and “ours” a beautiful story for another day), 2 gorgeous grandsons, and a lovable black lab, Piper!
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He’s nearing retirement, I’m living in my passion as purpose writing, speaking, leading, and coaching others to Build A Life You Love one intentional day at a time!
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I have experienced some of the messiest things life has to serve up. And survived. Learned to embrace surrender, choose intentionally, and keep doing the work.
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I’ve chosen to be the narrator of my own life, heal, find purpose, and teach others how to get unstuck in life!
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I’m a stand for you to build a life that is real, aligned, honest, and one that you love waking up to every day. I am committed to a community of Life Builders!
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Welcome! I’m glad you’re here. 🦋

Day 1 of 30 Days of Building a Life You Love.
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The secret to building a life you love is being willing to do the messy work we want to avoid.
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Choosing one intentional day after another… over and over again.
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Join me for the next 30 days while I unpack my journey and we uncover nuggets of truth… more Notes To Self if you will 😉

What would it feel like to step away from the noise, the responsibilities, the expectations, and spend four days reconnecting with yourself?
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This September 24–28, I’m hosting an intimate retreat in Northern Michigan designed for women who are ready to pause, breathe, reflect, and intentionally create more of what they want in their lives.
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Think lake views, meaningful conversations, coaching, yoga, breathwork, creativity, laughter, connection, rest, and space to hear your own voice again.😍

If you’ve been craving a reset, clarity around what’s next, or simply permission to put yourself on your own priority list, this experience was created with you in mind.
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I’m sharing all the details about what we’ll be doing, who it’s for, + why I believe this retreat will be truly transformational.

✨ September 24–28, 2026
✨ Northern Michigan
✨ Limited spots available

Ready to join us? DM me RETREAT and I’ll send you all the details!

Drop your deposit using the link below and let’s create a life you love… together!!!! 🦋

You don’t have to do this alone.

Join me at the Fall retreat. Bring a friend.

Receive 30 days of private coaching with me as my gift to you.

Let’s build a life you love… together.🦋

DM “RETREAT” for details.