Emily Anne Page

One of the craziest experiences I’ve ever had was traveling through rural China inspecting factories.

As a tall woman (sometimes blonde), I stood out. A lot. 😅

People would sneak photos of me… or walk up and ask if they could take a picture with me - a complete stranger.

At first, it was like accidental celebrity status.

—> The brain naturally notices and fixates on what feels unfamiliar or different.

It’s instinct. The brain is constantly scanning, categorizing, simplifying, and trying to explain the unknown.

“What is that?”
“Why are they different?”
“Is this safe?”
“Have I seen this before?”

Most people across the world want the same things:
- To feel safe.
- To laugh.
- To belong.
- To be loved.
- To matter.

Despite language barriers, we connected through smiles, gestures, food, laughter, and curiosity.

That trip reminds me that differences are often the first thing we notice - but they don’t have to be the final thing we believe.

Connection starts after the judgment ends.

Public service announcement to my overactive, self judging brain 🧠: rest is productive too.

Maybe you also need to hear that? 😘

When you’re “resting” (not focused on a task... zoning out), your brain activates the “Default Mode Network” - a system responsible for:

+ Memory consolidation
+ Creativity
+ Problem-solving
+ Self-reflection

Plus recovery reduces cortisol too. So hormones can rebound.

What can you do to recharge? Stupid, silly, different and fun. That’s what works.

Happy weekend!

This revelation BLEW MY MIND 🤯 and changed the way I sell, lead, and communicate:

You cannot influence someone you are judging.

Let me repeat it… You cannot influence someone you are judging.

The second you think,
“They’re being irrational.”
“This makes no sense.”
“Why are they so difficult?”

Neuroscience proves… your brain tightens up and stops processing new information in order to conserve energy.

Our brain stops gathering new information. We begin looking for evidence that confirms our opinion. (Economists call this confirmation bias.)

It creates blind spots.

—>
You stop listening.
You stop getting creative.
You stop actually trying to understand.

And they can feel it.

Your tone shifts.
Your energy shifts.
Your solutions get smaller.

It’s not because you’re a bad person — it’s how our brain work.

Once we decide someone is “wrong,” we start looking for proof instead of understanding.

If you want real influence — with a client, your boss, your spouse, your team — you have to replace judgement with discernment.

The nuance is empathy. The tools are curiosity and questions.

Try this instead. Ask yourself:
“How can I see their perspective as rational and reasonable?”

And watch your brain unlock a new mode of thinking...

and the inner resources and momentum to create real connection and influence.

I want deeper connections for you in the relationships that you care about.

🤍 Emily

When I see this 13 year old girl I think… she doesn’t even know it yet… but her heart 💜 which feels so tender and filled with love for people… will be the guiding star ⭐️ God gave her to navigate life.

Life will be fun, exciting and hard… and when it is hard will she will wonder if she is too soft and sincere for this world. If the hard things are too much.

But through the hard things God will show her the power of love to overcome the darkness.

In the moments when faith is weak… our hope and strength is love.

💗 Emily

Ooooo! Friendships matter. Connection to other people in our lives matters!

Not just because it feels nice to have friends.

For your health and satisfaction with life.

According to the “Harvard Study of Adult Development” (an 80 year long study) - the strongest predictor of long-term happiness and health was not wealth, IQ, or career status — it was the quality of close relationships.

❌ Not popularity.
❌ Not network size.
✅Depth and reliability.

People who reported:
• Warm relationships
• Someone they could confide in
• Emotional support during stress

…lived longer and were happier decades later.

What Ive learned from being a new kid at 14 schools is that friendships require investing energy and focus to grow.

I love you to the friends who randomly think of me and call… or text just to ask how Im doing or share a memory of us together.

I love you to the friends who feel they want me to know a deep update on how they feel or a concern in their life.

These small thing Ive learned is that this intentional investments make me feel connected to them.

Which is why I also do them when I want to feel connected to people.

I hope you and I realize that friendship (the deep kind) should be our priority - and an investment.

So we lead a richer and happier life!

🤍 Emily

Up before sunrise for the next three weeks ☕️ because I’m leading a custom executive training program in partnership with ECRM for the Istanbul Chamber of Commerce, working with 15 VIP international businesses.

While the context is global business, the lesson underneath is deeply human—and applies to your life and mine.

Neuroeconomics shows us the human brain is fundamentally risk-averse.

When we face uncertainty or unfamiliar situations, the brain shifts into threat-assessment mode before logic engages.

Our first response to something new is often hesitation, doubt, or delay—what neuroscientists call cognitive dissonance.

That mental friction feels uncomfortable, even painful, so the brain looks for relief: say no, avoid, delay, stay silent, or get defensive.

This is why the most common response to a “pretty good” opportunity is rejection—or silence.

A confused mind says no.

And this isn’t just in business.

It shows up when we ask for a raise, ask our kids to help, ask a partner to try something new—or ask ourselves to start a new goal.

But the good news is… we can hack our minds rather than be victims to our first responses.

But it requires EQ! Learning and practicing people skills help us connect and communicate to people we care about.

We can OVERCOME objections.
Clarity reduces fear.
Structure reduces resistance.
Safety invites engagement.

Today I’m sharing these principles with leaders in Istanbul, you and me.

The path to deep human connection is not always clear initially to our minds.

In fact in this case it can feel irrational to us when others react.

Let this research empower you to intentionally lead and influence deeper relationships in the areas that matter most to you.

♡  Emily

A sweet friend worked toward a goal for an entire year — and received a hard rejection. In her disappointment she told me she was spiraling into depression.

I feel that way too! In fact my mind is VERY dramatic. When I’m rejected or fail, my FIRST thoughts are: “My life is over! God hates me! I’ll never recover! Im such a looser!”

When rejection happens — after real effort — it hurts!

But it’s not weakness... It’s neuroscience.

Our brains experience rejection like physical pain creating cortisol, the stress hormone (it effects the same neural pathways that physical pain does).

That chemical response is what creates the heavy, dark, hopeless feeling in your body. It is a thought your brain creates to help protect you from pain.

But the KEY to getting out of the darkness is choosing the “meaning” we give the circumstance. Our soul (whatever that free will part of us is) gets to choose the interpretation of life and as a result change how we feel.

We can hijack our thoughts to take control of our feelings.

If we choose to interpret rejection as “a part of a process... normal... something all people go through....” your brain literally shifts chemistry.

It releases dopamine and norepinephrine — the hormones tied to motivation, learning, and forward momentum.

—> Same event.
—> Different meaning.
—> Different hormones.

What?! Doesn’t that shock you? Doesnt that make you feel a little more in control of your life and how you feel about it?

Resilience is a life superpower.

The cooler the thing you’re trying to do, the more rejection you should expect.

And if you look closely, you’ll also find acceptance everywhere — signals showing you where energy, alignment, and opportunity live.

I want you to feel motivated and capable to keep going when things get hard.

Keep going.
Interpret wisely.
Your brain is listening.

♡ Emily

Our minds forget average… but remember weird outliers. It's proven by neuroscience!

We remember the wildly joyful moments OR deeply painful ones.
Those moments enter our long term memory.

I learned this from experience early—moving through 14 different schools, often eating lunch alone, scanning rooms for a place to belong. I had to do something BIG to make friends faster.

Years later, I saw the same thing happen while building a million-dollar packaging design agency.

I was cold-calling clients at trade shows, starting awkward conversations, taking risks that felt slightly unhinged at the time. It was when I was BOLD that people noticed and started to trust me.

Those moments I got UNCOMFORTABLE were the moments that changed everything.

Which is probably why I don’t love “sit-and-listen” learning.

As a speaker, I’m far more interested in creating experiences that pull people out of autopilot—away from their screens and into real, slightly uncomfortable, very human moments.

Last week, I hosted and created “The Great Big Texas Beauty Tour” for ECRM. Of course I put on boots and a cowboy hat!

76 executives piled onto a bus in Dallas. I ran a BINGO scavenger hunt across the city, visiting Sephora, Ulta Beauty and Bluemercury.

Our goal was to discover trends and study store differences to pitch to them more effectively - not as passive observers, but as wild psychos competing to beat the other teams to glory!

And here’s the part that matters:

→ If we want to LEARN → get weird between study sessions.
→ If we want to build NEW FRIENDSHIPS → go big on adventure.
→ If we want to create TRUST with clients → get uncomfortable and find something fun to do.

This is how our brain 🧠 creates memories!
Those memories turn into trust.
Trust turns into relationships.
And relationships tend to move business—and life—forward faster than logic ever does.

FOR THE LOVE OF YOU -
It made me wonder:

- What part of your life feels a little too “average” right now?

- And where could you gently—but intentionally—shake things up enough to create a moment your brain won’t forget?

♡ Emily

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False 😵: “Empathetic people make less money and are perceived as weaker” - this was the message of a click-bate video reel I saw this weekend. They even misquoted a Harvard research paper!

The real research from Harvard is VERY CLEAR:

📈 Empathy and humility is a social que that builds trust, openness, and sharing. 📈

Leaders demonstrating these qualities statistically get:

- Faster career advancement
- Higher lifetime earnings
- Increased access to opportunity networks

Strong relationships—not IQ or pedigree—are the best predictors of long-term success and wealth stability.

So if you second guess yourself or ever feel insecure... please don’t beat yourself up about it.

You’re literally destined for success.

Instead... come work with me.

I like leaders like you.

You’re ALWAYS welcome on my team.

📍”Harvard Business School: Empathy Predicts Leadership Effectiveness (and Pay)” - Amy Edmondson