DavebeversDaughter

You want to post about People Stirring the Pot, Doing things Intentionally and Play dumb Really, Dave?

Observant of what…. You talk about people being unjust, arrogant, stirring the pot for attention and drama… News flash, that’s literally what you do best.

I went silent. Everyone noticed. I stopped posting, shut my mouth, tried to move forward—to forget the pathetic excuse for a father I was given.

But Dave Bever just CANT stand being ignored.

From the constant harassing messages to showing up at my job—creating a scene like the attention-starved narcissist he is—Dave always needs to make everything about himself.

This is the same man who parades around his “new family,” pretending he’s moved on, yet can’t stop obsessing over the one he abandoned.

Can’t let go. Can’t stay away.

And let’s talk about that little stunt showing up to my Job. Why’d you do it? To get a reaction? Or maybe because the drama is the only thing keeping you relevant.
You’re not fooling anyone, Dave.

You crave control, chaos, and attention. And that’s all you’ll ever have—because no one who actually knows you wants anything else to do with you.

LETS take a moment to acknowledge the real roles we play in our families. shout out to all the stepdads who genuinely strive to be positive influences. But let’s give a Big shout out to failing fathers like Dave, who have failed in his duties, pretending to be a champion while leaving behind a trail of dysfunction.

You love to project jealousy and envy onto others, but maybe it’s time to look in the mirror. At 45, starting over with a new woman and new children. Due to YOUR own Abuse, Manipulation, lying and Unfaithfulness. what does that reveal about you? Are you really “better”? Or is the power you seek built on fear and manipulation? Winning shouldn’t come at the expense of those you once claimed to love, your own flesh and blood.

Now let’s not overlook the women enabling this cycle—Mothers and Stepmoms who prioritize their own desires over their children's well-being. Too wrapped up in their own desires, and lust they forget to prioritize their children’s safety.

So, congratulations, David, and to your new wife—you’ve found happiness at the expense of others’ suffering. That’s quite a perverse victory. Champions indeed. 👏🏼

It’s time to confront the legacy you’re creating. Are you proud of the life you’ve built on broken foundations? Looks like you need some Time for self-reflection. Are you really winning, or just fooling yourself?

You want to wear the mask of a good father? Which kid are you pretending to care about—your own, or the child of your new wife? Are you pocketing your child support while you jet off on extravagant vacations, or is that money going toward outfitting your new sons with trendy sports gear?

Your own son—a starter on his middle school soccer team—had a game today, just like he does every week. But yet again, where was Dave? Off chasing power over another man’s children, while your kid sits, wondering if you even care. Meanwhile, you’re out there, pretending to coach someone else’s team, cheering for another child. Your own flesh and blood is left to wonder if you’ll ever show up.

Father of the year? More like a power-hungry abuser, reveling in the misery you impose on your own son, trying to keep others feeling small and threatened by your hollow presence. You’re a man full of empty words but short on action. Your son deserves much more than what you’ve given him.

I pray that God grants your son the vision to see his true worth, so he can break free from the false hopes you keep dangling in front of him. It’s time to wake up and realize that no amount of power can replace your responsibility as a father.

Since Dave wants to hide his face from My account, in risk of being exposed. Becky Bever make sure this gets to him.

A man who claims to embody “Honor,” “Faith,” or “Honesty” deserves to be questioned, for these assertions are fundamentally false. His true character is one of hypocrisy, deceit, and narcissism. Recently, Dave Bever has taken to social media to publicly shame and slander others for expressing their concerns about child support and for not fulfilling their financial responsibilities.

Here’s the undeniable truth: Dave has neglected to pay his child support for more than one month. He preaches about being a man of faith yet tells his youngest son that private school is a privilege, insisting that it’s time he transitions to public school—an environment remarkably unsupportive of spiritual growth. His son participates in sports, which incur fees, yet those expenses appear to be irrelevant to Dave. He selectively attends only the games that are conveniently located.

Furthermore, he has quit the job where his child support payments were automatically deducted and has now resorted to receiving all his income under the table. The question is: how severe will the legal ramifications become for him? Stay tuned, as the developments are sure to be revealing.

Twisted Church was originally founded as a nonprofit organization with the stated mission of serving the community through charitable efforts and outreach. However, as a former member, I must raise serious concerns about the integrity and true intentions behind this organization.

It has become increasingly evident that Twisted Church operates primarily for the financial gain of its founder rather than for the benefit of those it claims to serve. I have personally witnessed significant cash transactions and online revenue streams that have been redirected for the personal benefit of the owner, under the guise of nonprofit activities.

The upcoming event, “One Last Dance,” raises critical questions. Is this a genuine effort to serve the community, or merely a vehicle for the founder to generate additional income while operating under the radar? The implications are troubling, particularly in light of the founder’s past dealings with legal advisors related to child support obligations—issues that could potentially influence the ethical underpinnings of this endeavor.

Potential participants should proceed with caution. Not everything is as it appears; what you contribute may not serve the intended purpose. It is also vitally important to note that Dave is no longer affiliated with the district superintendent for the CMA, which means that this event is now solely under his control. He alone will reap the financial rewards and, by extension, bear any legal consequences that may arise.

Therefore, I urge those considering involvement to critically evaluate whether this initiative is genuinely designed to benefit others or primarily to enrich the founder. Transparency, accountability, and the true mission of such organizations should always be prioritized.

I want to take a moment to explain the purpose behind this page. I created this account to confront the hard truths that so many people choose to ignore or sweep under the rug. From a young age, I watched my father speak bluntly about the truth, believing it to be a strength. Yet, as I grew older, I came to realize that his version of truth was often spun or twisted to serve his own agenda.

This account is not about slander, harassment, or bullying. It’s about shedding light on the reality of what appeared to be a faithful, God-loving household but was, in fact, broken, controlled, and filled with pain. I refuse to let others dictate or control my life. Just the other day, someone asked me when I would stop letting others control me, and my life. The reality is, I never have. I've always been observant, seeing things for what they are even before they are revealed to others.

I understand if you don’t support me, and honestly, I don’t need your support. What I’m doing here is essential: I’m acknowledging and exposing the truth about real-life abuse, manipulation, and the tactics of narcissistic behavior. It is unfortunate that I have to speak about my own father, but I will not shy away from what I know to be true.

At the end of the day, my heart and soul know what is right and what is wrong. I will continue to share these truths in hopes that it may help someone else find their strength or break free from toxic relationships. I want to prevent others from being used, manipulated, or hurt.

With all my love,
Dave Bevers' Daughter

Introducing a man who specializes in projecting his insecurities onto others, casting judgment on the very groups he embodies. This is nothing short of a calculated facade—an elaborate scam disguised as morality. He presents himself as a superior individual, all while deflecting the blame for his own failings, choices, and behaviors. His desire for validation compels him to be seen as the "good guy," yet a closer examination of his passionate tirades reveals a disturbing truth: they are mere reflections of his own character flaws.

Once a pastor, he passionately condemned "fake churches" and "fake leaders," continuously ranting about those who present themselves as paragons of virtue, only to be caught indulging in less-than-admirable behavior. Let’s not be fooled—behind this self-righteous indignation lies a deep-seated disdain for himself. Not only being a former pastor; He is also an alcoholic, an abuser, a manipulator, a liar, a thief, and a cheater.

So, what drives his so-called passion? Is it a genuine concern for others, or is it a desperate attempt to distance himself from the very traits that define him? It’s time to unveil the truth: his vocal criticisms are rooted in the chaos of his own existence. The real question is not about the random topics he rants about, but rather the undeniable connection to the flawed essence of who he truly is.

It has come to my attention that Dave Bever has taken to creating fake accounts to comment on my latest posts. Ironically, while he has blocked me from accessing his pages, he seems determined to shield himself from scrutiny. His actions suggest a calculated effort to prevent his followers from discovering his true character.

Dave Bever prefers to portray himself as a moral authority, all the while conveniently deflecting accountability for his past wrongdoings and casting blame on the People who once loved him and called him Family. This strategy of distraction is not only transparent but also a testament to the traits of a narcissist.

Let me be clear: my social media presence is not a vehicle for drama. Its primary purpose is to raise awareness about domestic violence by sharing my personal experiences and demonstrating that escape and recovery are indeed possible.

I understand that some may choose to follow my accounts out of curiosity or to fuel gossip, but that is beyond my control. My mission is to vindicate my family's name from the pain and suffering my father has inflicted upon us and countless others.

We are no longer bound by his influence or besmirched by his actions. Regardless of how he seeks to reinterpret our harrowing story, my voice will remain unyielding. I am fiercely committed to ensuring the safety, happiness, and healing of MY family from the torment inflicted by an abusive individual masquerading as a “Man of God.”
Ministry Frontline Care

"Two Weeks Today😉" highlights how marriage can serve as a mechanism for control, providing an abuser with a means to maintain dominance over their spouse. For individuals who engage in abusive behaviors, control is essential for their sense of stability. Lacking control, they may feel as though their world is unraveling. Their drive is rooted in exerting authority over others, often employing manipulation tactics to create a dynamic akin to a game. The spouse becomes a pawn on their game board, strategically placed as the abuser carefully orchestrates their moves to achieve dominance.
Dave’s recent marriage proposal appears to be a calculated step aimed at isolating a woman and her children, imposing compliance through fear of punishment—often hidden from public view. Those who genuinely know The new Spouse may question whether she has retained her former self or if she's been fundamentally altered by this relationship.
Is Dave’s next move to involve exerting control over his New spouses children? This concern and question stems from my personal past interactions with him and the children. I have witnessed behaviors that are deceitful and concerning. Dave's short temper and intimidating body language have created a fearful environment for the younger boys, compelling them to "behave."
*Although my father may seek to project an image of being a “good man” and “good father,” It’s important to examine the underlying facts. His social media posts often emphasize his role, frequently positioning himself at the center of attention rather than genuinely showcasing the well-being of his children, New family, or Spouse.
Maybe with this being said, a New angle will begin with his Manipulation and games..
But it can’t ever be hidden from someone who knows the True Identity of Dave Bever.
- Daves daughter
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That's right. What you see is what you get. I don't have to expend energy on constantly maintaining my image, because I keep it transparent and authentic.
The narcissist is out there trying to spin a false narrative that discredits me, but that's OK.
I know my story. I know the truth. I live with consistent integrity. I'm not hiding anything.
Let them keep burning up energy to both maintain their false self and their falsely constructed version of who they say I am. It requires more fuel for them, more supply, which, from how I see it, actually compromises them more to be seen for what they truly are.

in every picture, behind every smile.. I was broken. no matter how well someone seems.. you never know what they may be facing..

growing up i Believed Abuse was love.. I believed as a child when my father would neglect us, and hurt us it was acceptable. because he’d always apologized and claim loved us. i Believed that it was normal.

In middle school was when i noticed things to be getting progressively worse in my house hold… at that time in school i was hurting others bc i was hurting.. i would act out and create problems i knew i didn’t have to fix. i would bully, disobey, lie…
throughout high school, i began to care more, notice new things.. notice how unhealthy, unhappy my family was.. i noticed how each one of them suffered differently and i felt all of their pain as if it was my own. There were times i was so overwhelmed with my pain, and emotions i would drown myself in Alcohol or self harm.. just to feel something.. i would do these things to try and escape reality, to distract me from my fears and thoughts of what was occurring in our home.
towards the end of high school i had a Major come to God moment.. and i chose to find happiness, achieve my goals, fight for what i believed in.. I believed God was going to Save me.

My hurt still hurts.. But i am no longer Angry.
I no longer Hate the Man who destroyed me or my family. I feel Sorry for him..
Ephesians 4:32 “be kind, and compassionate towards one another, forgive each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
It’s okay to lose hope in people when they have hurt you, just don’t lose hope in the Lord. He will always persevere, and will always make a way…
Just like he Made a way for Me and my family.