Vsquared Ministries

JUST BECAUSE WE DISAGREE DOESN'T MEAN I'M MAD AT YOU
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Are you @ odds with your spouse?
1. Spend intentional quality time what does that mean? That means they are the center of your entire time together make it count, no distractions.
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2. MAKE LOVE, physical connection is so important it's like hitting the reset button

SHOW HIM/HER THE GOD IN YOU!

S*x and food are NOT what keeps a man! Yep I said it. They help but when was the last time you showed him some appreciation 🤔. Building him up with your words and ACTIONS is what keeps him.
So let him know how great he is then show him by how you treat him ❤️

My main dude now and forever! Let me see the beautiful couples out there

Question: And I want you to think about this like really think about it, ask yourself
Does your spouse know?, I mean do they really know how you feel? Like what they did, the lingering affect of THAT thing... ORRRRRR you assume they do because they lived it with you. You're mad because they're not responding how YOU want them to, yet they have no idea why you're feeling the way you do. OPEN your mouth and talk respectfully ofcourse 🗣

PSA to the men out there.
If your wife is a mother you've got 10 days, you're welcome 😀

Simple rules for marriage...
DO NOT CHEAT
DO NOT FLIRT
NO one comes BEFORE your spouse BUT GOD

Don't give up on your spouse, you're still trying to get it right too!

Spring cleaning doesn't only apply to your home!

HURT people HURT people!

This cliché is TRUE and REAL.

So let me ask you, are you healed? Is your spouse paying for your past traumas?

Admitting that you're hurt and seeking help will bring you so much so much peace and joy into your relationship.

Side note: this trauma could have occurred with that very same person you are with. The process remains the same. GET HEALED!

Are you comparing your relationship? Are you looking at the highlight reels of other relationships on social media? Are you watching romcoms and thinking to yourself why doesn't my person do those things?
Keep in mind comparing is a joy killer... Think about it. 🤔

You two were fine before these types of thoughts started creeping in. In fact you were happy, enjoying one another. Then...

If there are things you see in a movie or on social media that you would like to experience with your mate, then share that with them and put it into practice.

You will avoid a lot of confrontation by sharing your desires. Instead of thinking they can read your mind.

Remember a picture is worth a thousand words but which words are you allowing these pictures to form?

THINK AND SPEAK LIFE INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP. You don't want what someone else has, CREATE your own narrative.

I few posts back I told you to imagine what your dream marriage/ relationship looked like and to go make it happen. This is part of that process.