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Throwback to a day spent on the edge of paradise!

Wearing my favorite red and white striped shirt paired with crisp white trousers, I took a step away from the beach shorts and singlets that everyone else seems to rock. There’s something special about dressing up and enjoying the coastal breeze in a way that feels true to me.

Walking along the shore, the gentle waves lapping at my feet reminded me that style is about expressing yourself, no matter the surroundings. Here’s to embracing our own unique vibes and creating memories that last a lifetime!

When it comes to comfortable clothing, the definition can be subjective. Some people prioritize a perfect fit, while others worry about what others will think. But what does it truly mean to be comfortable in one’s clothes?

For me, it’s about feeling confident and at ease when I look in the mirror. When you have a established style, comfort often stems from colors and styles that resonate with your personal taste. However, when you’re looking to update your style, you may need to venture out of your comfort zone to grow and evolve.

Stepping out of your comfort zone can be daunting, especially when you’re used to basing your wardrobe choices on what others wear. But this approach can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointment. That’s why working with a professional like myself can be beneficial. I can help address any concerns and create a personalized look that suits your body, lifestyle, and personality.

If you’re interested in learning more about how I can help you develop a personal brand that reflects your unique style, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to guide you through the process and help you achieve the confidence you deserve.

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“Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.”
– John Wooden

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Que cada amanhecer traga novas oportunidades, novas esperanças e um sorriso no rosto. A vida é um presente precioso, vamos aproveitá-la ao máximo!
Happy weekend!

In life, it is important to focus your energy on the things that bring you joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction. By putting your energy where it flows, you can create a sense of balance and alignment in your life.

When you invest your time and effort into activities, relationships, and goals that resonate with your values and passions, you are more likely to experience success and happiness. By following your intuition and following the path that feels right for you, you can tap into your inner strength and creativity.

By letting go of the things that drain your energy or bring you down, you can create space for positive energy to flow into your life. This may involve setting boundaries, saying no to things that do not serve you, or taking time for self-care and relaxation.

Ultimately, when you put your energy where it flows, you are able to harness your full potential and live a more fulfilling and authentic life. Trust in yourself and your instincts, and allow your energy to guide you towards a life that is truly aligned with your heart’s desires.

The society of the 21st century is highly visual and image-driven. In a world where first impressions matter more than ever, it is important to present ourselves in the best possible light. One way to do this is by dressing better and paying attention to our personal style.

By investing time and effort into curating our wardrobe and grooming ourselves, we can project a more polished and professional image. This can have a positive impact on how we are perceived by others, and may even open up opportunities for advancement in our personal and professional lives.

In today’s society, where social media and online presence play a significant role in shaping our image, it is more important than ever to take control of how we present ourselves to the world. By dressing better and paying attention to our personal style, we can ensure that we are making the best possible impression and taking advantage of the opportunities that come our way.

If you want to learn more visit my website and take advantage of my image consulting services.

🌍 www.eduardoxavier.com

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When you realize your suit match the Portuguese tiles… it could be in Seville, Spain, but no it was in Porto, Portugal!

Color has the power to evoke emotion, create contrast, and express individuality in a men’s outfit. By incorporating bold and unexpected colors into your wardrobe, you can make a confident statement and show off your unique style. Embracing color can bring life and energy to your look, inspiring others to do the same and break away from traditional masculine norms. So, don’t be afraid to play with color and experiment with different combinations to create a visually striking and inspiring outfit that truly reflects your personality.

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Stay focused on your purpose and tune out any distractions that try to derail you. Your goals are worth staying committed to.

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Dear women,

On this international women’s day, I want to take a moment to express my gratitude and appreciation for all the incredible women in my life. From my mother, to my sister, to my niece, to my friends, and to the one I Love 🥹 and to all the women who have supported me and inspired me throughout the years, I am truly grateful for each and every one of you.

You have shown me strength, resilience, and empathy in ways that have shaped me into the person I am today. Your unwavering support and love have been a constant source of comfort and encouragement, and I am so grateful to have you all by my side.

As a man, I recognize the importance of lifting up and celebrating the women in my life, and I am committed to being a better ally and advocate for gender equality. I am continuously inspired by your strength and determination, and I am so proud to know such incredible women.

Thank you for everything you do, for the endless love and support you provide, and for the impact you have had on my life. Today, and every day, I celebrate you.

Happy international women’s day.

With love and gratitude,
Eduardo Xavier

Estamos de parabéns… Segundo ano consecutivo!!!

Obrigado a todos que confiaram nos nossos serviços.

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The Green Tweed 3 Piece Suit…
Stylish and sophisticated choice for any formal occasion. Made from high-quality tweed fabric, this suit features a tailored fit that flatters the wearer’s silhouette.

The suit jacket is well-structured with notch lapels, a two-button closure, and flap pockets. The matching vest adds an extra layer of elegance and can be worn with or without the jacket. The suit trousers are slim-fitting with a box pleat front and without belts loops for the use of suspenders, also with 2” cuff these trousers bring a classic look to modern times!!!.

The rich green color of the tweed fabric adds a touch of personality to this classic suit style, making it a versatile option for both business events and special occasions. Pair it with a crisp white dress shirt and a bold tie for a polished look that is sure to turn heads.

Overall, the Green Tweed 3 Piece Suit is a timeless and sophisticated choice for the modern gentleman who wants to make a statement with their wardrobe.

The return of the pinnacle of menswear - The Pinstripe suit!

The pinstripe suit has long been considered a classic and timeless option for men’s formal wear. It exudes sophistication and elegance, making it a popular choice for businessmen and professionals. The return of the pinstripe suit in 2024 signifies a resurgence of traditional menswear styles and a renewed interest in tailored pieces. This iconic garment is versatile and can be styled in various ways to suit different occasions, making it a must-have for any man’s wardrobe.

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A pinstripe 3 piece suit in petroleum green is a stylish and sophisticated choice for a formal event or business setting. The pinstripes add a subtle touch of pattern and texture to the suit, while the petroleum green color adds a unique and modern twist to a classic look. This type of suit is versatile and can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion, making it a timeless and fashionable addition to any man’s wardrobe.

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The Wholecut 285€
Hand made from Calf Leather with and amazing Goodyear welt construction to share comfort with a wearer.

The Horsebit Loafer in Navy 245€

"A well-dressed man is not defined by the labels he wears, but by the confidence with which he carries himself."

…a well-dressed appearance can convey professionalism, credibility, and attention to detail, which can positively impact personal and professional opportunities. Additionally, dressing well can boost self-confidence and help create a positive first impression.
If you want to learn more get on to my Image & Style Course for men. DM to learn more.

As part of my 2024 journey I said in one of my previous post I would share more of me the person. Here it os the post I promised once a week at least.
One day I dreamed of being a poet or just a writer… I don’t read many books these days but I write a lot, a lot of stories and poems… and I have written one in special that sums up a few about Love. I love to write about love!

Here it is:
‘Loving and being loved is a dream I have! I don't want to love just for love's sake: Here… there… now… later… I want to love my love! And not love for love's sake… I want to love my love and not ask to be loved!

I want to live this love! Feel this love! Live it Emotionally! Feel it unconditionally. I want to live you, love you, love the love!’

Português
‘Amar e ser amado é um sonho que tenho!
Não quero Amar só por amar: Aqui… ali… agora… depois…

Quero Amar o Amor! E não amar por amar… quero amar o meu amor e não pedir para ser amado!

Quero viver esse amor ? Sentir esse amor? Vivê-lo Emocionalmente! Senti-lo incondicionalmente.
Quero viver-te, quero amar-te, quero amar o Amor!’

The new series of high-waisted trousers
The message here is modern sartorial approach with comfort & quality as the main subject but with a touch of fast fashion.european.official

Why a gentleman should have a pair of green loafers?

1. Versatility: Green loafers can add a pop of color to an outfit, making it more interesting and unique. They can be paired with various looks, both casual and dressy, adding a touch of individuality to your style.

2. Statement piece: Green loafers stand out and can make a statement. They exude confidence and show that you are not afraid to embrace a bold and distinctive style. They can also spark conversations, as people may be intrigued by your choice of footwear.

3. Stylish and trendy: Loafers are stylish and timeless footwear, and green ones provide a trendy twist to this classic. They can elevate an outfit, making it look more fashion-forward and contemporary. Green is also a color often associated with nature and freshness, which can give off a vibrant and youthful vibe.

4. Playful and fun: Green loafers can add an element of playfulness and fun to your ensemble. They can be a refreshing departure from traditional brown or black shoes, showing that you have a sense of adventure and a willingness to experiment with your style.

5. Unique choice: Green loafers are not as common as more traditional colors, so having a pair can set you apart from the crowd. They allow you to express your individuality and showcase your personal style in a distinctive way.

Overall, a pair of green loafers can add character and personality to a gentleman's wardrobe, providing a unique and stylish touch to various outfits.

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The Prince of Wales plaid suit, also known as Glen plaid or Glenurquhart check, is a classic pattern that originated in Scotland. Here are a few things to know about it:

1. Pattern: The Prince of Wales plaid suit features a check pattern consisting of small and large intersecting lines, forming a subtle grid-like design. It typically includes a mix of muted colors such as gray, black, and white, resulting in a sophisticated and timeless look.

2. Versatility: This pattern is highly versatile and can work well for both formal and semi-formal occasions. It adds visual interest to your outfit without being too flashy or overwhelming.

3. Suit Color: When it comes to Prince of Wales plaid suits, traditional colors like gray or navy are the most popular choices. These colors allow the pattern to stand out without overshadowing the overall look.

4. Pairing Choices: To create a stylish ensemble, pair your Prince of Wales plaid suit with a solid-colored dress shirt to balance out the pattern. A white or light blue shirt is a classic choice. Complete your look with a tie that complements the colors in the pattern.

5. Accessories: When accessorizing, opt for more subtle and minimalistic options to let the suit take the center stage. Consider a plain pocket square, a dress watch, and polished leather shoes that match the suit color.

6. Fit: As with any suit, ensure that the Prince of Wales plaid suit is well-tailored and fits you properly. The suit should be structured and flattering, accentuating your body shape.

Remember, the Prince of Wales plaid suit is a classic and elegant choice that adds sophistication to your wardrobe. With the right styling and attention to detail, it can be a versatile and stylish option for various occasions.

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Did you know you should talk without talking?

In fact, research suggests that only about 7% of communication is verbal, meaning that words alone account for a small portion of our overall communication. The majority of our communication actually relies on nonverbal cues such as facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, and other nonverbal behaviors.

When it comes to communication, our image or nonverbal cues play a significant role. Various studies suggest that nonverbal communication, including body language, facial expressions, gestures, and other visual cues, can account for up to 55% of overall communication.

Our image, or the way we present ourselves visually, can have a powerful impact on how we are perceived and how our messages are interpreted by others.

Personal branding, particularly concerning one's appearance, plays a significant role in
success. First impressions are formed within seconds of meeting someone, and a person's appearance is the first aspect others notice. Therefore, personal branding is essential in portraying a professional image and setting oneself up for success.

In today's competitive job market, employers often receive numerous resumes for a single position. Having a strong personal brand can make a candidate stand out from the crowd. The way an individual presents themselves through appearance creates an initial impression that can either attract or repel potential employers. Wearing appropriate attire that aligns with the industry's expectations and the company's culture helps convey professionalism and seriousness about the role. This sends a message that the individual respects and values their profession, enhancing their chances of securing a job or promotion.

As I get older and I realize Im too young to be old I stay focus on the acceptance of myself mature and with a children inside me that will never die even with the age and maturity, I see others with the same eyes of my that same children I have inside me, eyes that never judge the poor the rich the naked or the well dressed, because this children choose compassion over judgment and curiosity over fear and love over hate!
Today is a day to love, today is a day to be loved… I choose Compassion! And as Nelson Mandela once said;

"Our human compassion binds us the one to the other - not in pity or patronizingly, but as human beings who have learnt how to turn our common suffering into hope for the future."

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Spezzato!!!

Spezzato is an Italian term that translates to "broken" or "fragmented." In the world of fashion, it refers to a style of dressing in which an outfit is pieced together by mixing and matching different separates, typically in terms of color, pattern, or fabric. It involves wearing contrasting or mismatched pieces, like a blazer with different colored pants, or combining different patterns or textures to create a unique and individual look. The aim of spezzato is to break away from traditional matching suits or coordinated outfits and create a more eclectic and personalized style.

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Por todo o caminho simbólico ou outrora aventureiro eu tenho a audácia e humildade de aceitar o valor das flores frágeis que outrora toquei...
Tenho nas minhas mãos e coração certezas marcadas de bom jardineiro e excelente guardião do meu território e interesses territoriais…
Já sobre o meu caminho no céu não posso falar, mas se tiver a liberdade de ser mais um humilde cuidador farei-lo-ei cheio de amor...

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PS: Ando com imensa vontade de escrever... acho que não tenho esta vontade faz uns bons anos

Shadow owes its birth to light…
I owe this pictures to the best photographer in Porto

How to nail the perfect black tie attire?

1. Tuxedo:
Choose a well-fitted black or midnight blue tuxedo. A classic single-breasted jacket is a safe choice. It’s not a tuxedo if there’s no satin lapels. Choose black satin no matter what!

2. Shirt:
Opt for a crisp white dress shirt with a wingtip collar or a classic point collar. French cuffs are preferred. Black studs. If you do black studs don’t think you can wear a shirt with black buttons and is the same. It’s not the same.

3. Bow Tie:
Wear a black silk bow tie. You can choose pre-tied or self-tie, but self-tie is more traditional and it will look the best.

4. Waistcoat (optional):
A black or off white waistcoat can add a touch of elegance to your look. I suggest a low cut waistcoat nearly not seen when you have your jacket closed.

5. Trousers:
Go for black tuxedo trousers with or without a satin stripe down the leg. Make sure they fit well and are tailored to your height.

6. Footwear:
Black patent leather oxford shoes are the ideal choice. Ensure they are well-polished.

7. Accessories: Add black formal socks, cufflinks, and a white silk or cotton pocket square for a polished look.

8. Jewelry:
Minimal and subtle, a classic wristwatch is a good choice. I prefer nothing on these days.

9. Grooming:
Pay attention to grooming, with a well-kept hairstyle and clean-shaven or neatly groomed facial hair.

10. Fit:
Fit is crucial. Have your tuxedo tailored to your body to ensure it looks and feels perfect.

11. Confidence:
Lastly, carry yourself with confidence. Confidence is the key to pulling off black tie attire with style.

Remember that attention to detail and proper fit are essential for nailing the perfect black tie look. It's a timeless and elegant style that leaves a lasting impression.
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“I have great respect for the past. If you don't know where you've come from, you don't know where you're going. I have respect for the past, but I'm a person of the moment. I'm here, and I do my best to be completely centered at the place I'm at.”

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