Caelp Helps

Good morning!

This is your daily reminder that you are worthy, you are loved, and you are enough 🧡.

I hope that you have a good day today and remember to take a rest when you need to. 😴

Whatever you can do for the day, I know you did your best. 🥳

Take care of your mental health kings and queens 🫶. We all have our hidden battles and you are definitely not alone 🫂.

being kind and understanding ≠ being an enabler that allows bad behavior to continue. it's mental health awareness month and there are no people with mental health issues without offenders. let's not expect no consequences or any reactions to any wrong doings.

It's MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS MONTH‼️‼️
Let's do more than JUST BEING AWARE.
REACH OUT.
BE KIND.
BE COMPASSIONATE.
BE UNDERSTANDING.
BE HUMAN.
Nothing costs more than a HUMAN LIFE.
Set aside our differences and choose to listen and be there for one another.

Whatever you are going through, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. We don't have to know each other for me to listen to what you are going through. If you really need someone to listen or just be there, my dms are always open anytime for you. I will reply as fast as I can 🫂

You are valid. You are enough. You are wanted here. You are needed here. 💚

DISCLAIMER: This doesn't excuse ghosting, just dropping someone in need, etc. It is highly dependent on the situation. But of course, any disrespect or bad behavior that are truly affecting your life and mental health gives you the right to take a step back and choose yourself. Love doesn't bypass all toxic behaviors. Love can hold other people accountable too.

TOP 5 COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS IN PSYCHOLOGY MAJOR

It took me a long time before having the courage to speak up about this, but as the sexual awareness month comes to an end, I hope this serves a reminder that awareness and respect doesn't just end this month, because PREDATOR's behaviors heavily affect their victims for a lifetime. it's never the VICTIM's fault. Take NO for an answer.

"But they said sorry"
"But they said they were going to change"

Oh did they now? And what's more proof that they're eventually going to do it again than doing it more than twice?

You're not a mat babe. The one who welcomes everyone with open arms despite being stepped on every single time.

If you respect others enough to believe they are capable of change, remember to respect yourself too and know you don't have to suffer just to wait for someone's potential to be achieved.

You deserve the best RIGHT NOW, not whenever that is not today.

How did such a vulnerable moment of mine about gossip culture end up being one of my first ever viral video on Instagram?

Watch this video to found out! And if you're going through gossip culture, bullying, etc. Maybe this video might help you out with a thing or two ☺️.

Remember, you are how you write your own story. Gossip culture ends with us.

Disclaimer: Most of these are based on my own experiences. It might work for you or it might not. I hope you take care of yourself in the way that best works for you.

References:

https://cmns.umd.edu/news-events/news/cant-stand-gossip-new-research-suggests-gabbing-about-others-not-always-bad-thing

https://healthcareinspiredllc.com/gossip-vs-defamation-when-talk-turns-toxic-in-the-workplace/

Someone said something hateful about you?
Say what you love the most about them!

Someone is trying to get on your nerves?
Ask them how they are!

Someone hurt you deeply?
Love yourself more and treat others better!

Not everything has to have a violent reaction. Protecting yourself and your peace can look as simple as walking away, doing the right thing, and becoming the best version of yourself that you can be!

What hurts us the most can become something beautiful when handled the right way. Stay the light that you are 🤩✨🌟