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“𝐊𝐀𝐘𝐀 𝐊𝐎 𝐏𝐀 𝐏𝐀𝐋𝐀, 𝐍𝐀𝐁𝐔𝐋𝐀𝐆 𝐋𝐀𝐍𝐆 𝐒𝐀 𝐊𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐋𝐀𝐍𝐆 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐀𝐒𝐀𝐊𝐈𝐓 𝐍𝐀 𝐒𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐀.”

Ang salita ay makamandag, kaya nitong patayin ang ating mga mapangarap at kagustuhan. Dahil sa pangungutya nila sa aking kakayahan, nawala ang dating ako na madalas tumaas ng kamay sa klase at gana sa paggawa ng gawain. Bigla ring naglaho ang isang estudyanteng nais maging aktibo sa bawat gawain sa klase, organisasyon at paligsahan sa paaralan. Gustuhin ko mang ibalik ang dating ako, ngunit parang wala na ito; tila ba’t hindi ko na kaya ang mga ginagawa ko dati.

Ako ay isang estudyanteng aktibo sa aming paaralan, ngunit niligaw ito ng mga salita ng bawat tao. Yung dating magaling at matalino na mag-aaral ay bigla nalang naglaho na parang bula. Palagi akong minumulto ng kanilang mga salita na “Bida-bida,” “Sip-sip,” at marami pang iba. Kaya ko pa ba o susuko na?

Isang araw, bigla nalang akong nagising sa katotohanan, dito ko napagtanto na nabulag ako ng kanilang mga kasinungalingan. Muling bumalik ang dating ako, ngunit mas matatag na upang hindi maapektuhan ng kanilang panghuhusga. Muli akong naging palataas ng kamay sa klase, aktibo sa bawat gawain, at palasali sa bawat organisasyon at paligsahan sa paaralan. 𝑲𝒂𝒚𝒂 𝒌𝒐 𝒑𝒂 𝒑𝒂𝒍𝒂, 𝒏𝒂𝒃𝒖𝒍𝒂𝒈 𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒈 𝒔𝒂 𝒌𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒍𝒂𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒂𝒔𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒕 𝒏𝒂 𝒔𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒂.

“𝗛𝘂𝘄𝗮𝗴 𝗸𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝗮 𝘀𝗮𝘀𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗵𝗶𝗻 𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗯𝗮, 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗼𝘁 𝗸𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶 𝘀𝘂𝗺𝘂𝗯𝗼𝗸.”

Ang hirap magpatuloy kung maraming nangmamaliit sayo, ngunit hindi yan ang dahilan upang ikaw ay sumuko. Gawin mo ang mga bagay na magpapalago sa sayo; mag-aral ka ng mabuti, sumali ka sa mga extracurricular activities, sumubok ka, maglakbay ka, at huwag pakinggan ang sinasabi nila. Huwag mong hayaan ang sarili mo na mahila nila pababa. Tandaan mo, magaling ka.

“Shhh, I'm listening to Taylor Swift”

Smart shaming should not stop you from reaching your goals in life.

“Shhh, I'm listening to Taylor Swift”

“Spreading is caring,” we should talk more about smart shaming so we can spread awareness to everybody. I hope someday, we can change the world into a better place.✨

DYK?
SMART SHAMING CAN CAUSE INTERPERSONAL TRUST ISSUES THAT CAN RUINED SOMEONE'S FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP

A true friend will lift up your spirit and will support you instead of smart shaming you.

Source: https://getinternational.org/volume-2-issue-2-may-2024-7/

HOW TO OVERCOME THE EFFECTS OF SMART SHAMING?

SOURCE: https://getinternational.org/volume-2-issue-2-may-2024-7/

The crime of being smart
By Anika M. Untalan

Passions burning in my heart,
But, people are insulting my knowledge and art.

“Taas ka ng taas ng kamay, tama ka na, bida-bida ka nanaman.”
“Edi ikaw na mataas ang score.”
“Matalino ka na niyan?”

Despite their weapons against my capabilities,
I am still seizing different kinds of opportunities.

~~~

Inspired by the tiktok trend, “The crime of being small”

SMART SHAMING DISEASE: CLOSED EYES WITH IGNORANT MIND

Nowadays, tiktokers are now spreading awareness about the issue of Alice Guo or Guo Hua Ping to wake Filipinos up. However, it is sad and alarming when others, especially those who are so-called “Alice Guo Defenders,” are smart shaming those influencers out of annoyance. Those smart shaming comments can influence someone's attitude, well-being, and perspective about society. Therefore, Filipino people should be aware and educated about social and political issues and the term “smart shaming.”