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A quick reminder for anyone on the journey toward marriage: 📝 this goes for both men and women.
Before you accept that proposal, or before you ask that life-changing question... make sure you've asked the *other" important questions first.
Be thorough. Be careful. Know they character, they anger limit, they background, and CO. Marriage doesn't change a person; it only reveals them. Know who you are marrying before" the wedding day.

👇What’s the number one thing people should find out about a partner before marriage? Drop your thoughts below!

Let’s be completely honest—there is absolutely no lie here.
The moment women of our generation decided we were done tolerating the humiliation, the silence, and the abuse that our mothers swallowed just to keep a marriage together? That is exactly when the divorce rates started climbing. And you know what? That’s not a failure on our part; it’s a boundary.
If men still want to live and act exactly like their fathers did, that is their choice. But we are making it crystal clear: we will never accept the treatment our mothers accepted. Times have changed, and so have we. At the end of the day, it takes two whole, respectful people to make a marriage work. If both sides aren't showing up as partners, it just doesn't work anymore.

To the women: respect your husband and give him his honor as a man.

To the men: love your wives and understand that she has the exact same feelings as you. Stop suppressing her with the excuse of "I'm a man and I can do whatever I want."

Marriage is a partnership, not a power struggle. ✍️
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There’s always that one person you will meet in life that will make you break all the rules

Some connections don’t follow logic… they follow the heart.

My newest prayer is, “Lord, settle it.”
Settle my mind, my heart, and my spirit.
Teach me to be anxious for nothing and afraid of nothing.

Peace begins when you let God take control. Good morning lovers of Ijele🤞

“Everybody goes where they feel valued… if it’s not you, take the hint."