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A lot of women indeed realize that men are not as difficult as other women believe them to be.

It's only when you try to study a man that you'd know if men are difficult or not.

This is not to say all men, no.

But most men are not as difficult as some women think.

If you can truly understand your man and study him very well, you won't have any problem supposing both of you put first things first.

Just know that a man is not your next female friend, men don't really talk much, men are very very logical.

"Same word but different energy".
Most times it's not about what you say, it's about how you say it.

Don't wonder why your partner gets angry or gives you attitude for sometime after you say some things. Maybe it's because of how you said it.

Frank Edoho, chike and Sandra Saga.
Our society is decaying, moral and values are reducing fast.

Marriage is loosing it's value, importance and meaning, covenant is no longer respected.

As parents, always teach your sons not to sleep with married women no matter their influence in the society. Never. It's a sacrilege.

As husband/wife never step out of your marriage to sleep with another person. Never.
When you do, it shows you do not place much value on yourself, you lack discipline and respect for your spouse. Love is supposed to be an action word. You are supposed to have some level of restraint as a human being. You must endeavour to keep the marriage vow.

Frank Edoho's ex wife, Sandra has automatically shut the door for serious relationship/marriage with any man anytime soon with what she's done. But for Frank, although he did cheat and did a whole lot but guess what, if he wants to get married next week, there'll be ladies begging him to marry them including Chike, and that's one of the biases that I mentioned in my video a few weeks back.

A man and a woman have different advantages when it comes to relationships matter.

Prize or no prize, always dishout what you can take.

Casted.
Is this tongue or what?
Why faking it. Real Michael Jackson fans know what you were trying to do there.

Instead of blaming her husband, she looked inwards and found out where she was lacking.

To make marriage work is a great work of intentionality of both the husband and the wife.

Learn not to quit too soon.

This is what I think...

Your wife as a man should be your reflection, your extension.

One, you should have your life going as a man before you'll choose to invite a woman in. Your life should already be in order not necessarily 💯 but to some extent. This will give your life a structure and also a pattern for a sensible woman to work with.

Your life as a man is supposed to be a well branded life most especially regarding marriage so when you wife works in, she'll be an extension and a reflection of you that's supposed to be the headquarters.

But if your life is not in order at any level at all before she comes in, there'll be chaos, disaster and confusion.
Do you get it?

Does keeping a platonic friendship possible even while in a relationship or marriage?

Honesty and Transparency.

They are both trues in a relationship or marriage but one is like saying a half truth while the other a well rounded truth.

Both is not telling lies but one feels complete than the other.
Transparency is a more complete version of truth than honesty.

Do you agree?

A lot of men are leaving because they constantly pay for the damage they didn't cause. They tired of being manipulated, used and abused.

Do women actually prefer being alone?

This is where real intimacy begins.
Beyond the Polished version, beyond the facade, when you are close to your partner, you'll start seeing what you couldn't see from outside, what no one would have noticed no matter how close except you their partner and this is where real intimacy begins.