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Food For Thought

*𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝗼𝗮𝗽, 𝗢𝗶𝗹 𝗜𝘀 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗲𝗱. 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗧𝗼 𝗖𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝗢𝗶𝗹, 𝗦𝗼𝗮𝗽 𝗜𝘀 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗲𝗱. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗜𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗿𝗼𝗻𝘆 𝗢𝗳 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲. 𝗡𝗼 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗜𝘀 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗦𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗜𝗻 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗔𝘁 𝗦𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗣𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗜𝗻 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲. 𝗧𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝗧𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁, 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗠𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗕𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗦𝗮𝘃𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗧𝗼𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗼𝘄.*

𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗕𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗲!🌞💫

Forever, wind of affliction will not blow to your direction!
Whatever alter destinies in your family will be powerless over your destiny, and the God Almighty will take care of you!

May the mercy of the Lord bless you beyond expectations, protect you from all evils and grant you those good things you have desired for!

Just like the eagle, you will soar!
Like gold, you will be valued!
Like the sun, you shall shine brighter!
Like the river, you shall flow unlimitedly!
Like the palm tree, you shall flourish!
And like money, you shall be useful!

The Glory of God be upon you and all yours in Jesus Name, Amen 🙏.
Good morning and have a wonderful, blessed, pleasant and victorious day.🌞💫

I have decided to join the trend and check what I would have looked like in the 1980s…

I'm loving what I am seeing though. I look like a celebrity and fashion icon! 💃🏾🔥
AI has carried me back in time and honestly…
I don't want to come back. 😭😂✨🔥

If you want to join the trend use my prompt 👇👇👇

Or
Open ChatGPT or your preferred AI tool upload your reference picture and drop this👇 👇👇👇
“Show me what I would have looked like in the 1980s. Keep my facial features and identity recognizable. Give me authentic 1980s hair, makeup and fashion. Create another version from a different angle, with a completely different 1980s outfit. Make both looks realistic, natural and like an authentic vintage photograph from the 1980s.”

You can't claim you are surprised at where you find yourself. Your arrival at a destination is the product of the route you have followed either the wrong road or the right road. Once you chose your route, your destination is automatic. Good afternoon and a productive working day.💫🌞

Say no to people who mess with your head. The ones who keep doing things intentionally to upset you. The ones who always play the victim even though it’s obvious they’re wrong. The ones who expect you to prioritise them but won’t do the same for you. Avoid them.

Good Morning🌞💫

Psalm 115:12 - "The Lord hath been mindful of us; he will bless us..........."
Oh, what a faithful, covenant - keeping God we serve!
According to this Scripture, God is mindful of us and even in our low estate, He remembers us.
God remembered Noah in the ark - "And God remembered Noah, and every living thing..." (Genesis 8:1).

I pray, therefore, that all the days of your life, God in His infinite love and mercy, will remember you and your household with blessings, goodness, favour, divine provisions and good health in the mighty name of Jesus.

As the Psalmist declared, I pray that - "The Lord shall increase you more and more, you and your children. You are blessed of the Lord which made heaven and earth" in Jesus Mighty, Name🙏 🙏(Psalm 115:14 - 15).

Have a pleasant and peaceful day.💐

Some people are living through the repercussions of things they know nothing about.

They are fighting battles that started before they were born. They inherited poverty, broken homes, anger, addiction, rejection, fear, poor financial habits, unhealthy relationships, and wounds they never created.

They did not choose the pattern. They were simply born into it.

But at some point, someone has to decide that the pattern will not continue.

If poverty has followed your family for generations, breaking the cycle may mean learning how money works, becoming financially disciplined, getting an education or a skill, saving instead of spending everything, building something that can outlive you, and teaching your children what nobody taught you.

If broken homes have followed your family, it may mean learning how to communicate, choosing a healthy partner, refusing to normalize abuse, healing before entering another relationship, and teaching your children that love should feel safe.

If anger has been passed from one generation to another, it may mean learning to pause before reacting, apologizing when you are wrong, seeking counselling, and refusing to make your children pay for wounds they did not cause.

If addiction has damaged your family, breaking the cycle may mean getting help, removing yourself from environments that keep pulling you back, finding accountability, and refusing to hide the problem because you are ashamed.

And through all of it, please pray.

Pray for wisdom.
Pray for strength.
Pray for healing.
Pray for discipline.
Pray for the courage to do what your family has never done before.

Ask God to help you break what has been breaking your family.

But then get up and do the work.

Prayer without changed choices keeps the door open for the same patterns to return.

You cannot control what your parents gave you, but you can decide what you give your own children.

You do not have to carry every pattern you inherited.

Let the cycle end with you.

I have come to realize that one of the most neglected parts of being alive is our relationship with ourselves.

I don't mean our relationship with our spouses or our children. I am not even talking about our relationship with God.

I mean our relationship with ourselves.

Most of us spend our lives introducing ourselves to others while remaining strangers to ourselves.

Sweet people that we are, we know what makes other people angry. We know what makes them laugh. We know their favorite foods, their dreams, their fears, and their stories.

But when was the last time we sat with ourselves long enough to learn our own?

When was the last time we learned, unlearned, and relearned ourselves?

I ask because I am learning that many of us are carrying exhaustion and we call it responsibility.
We carry sadness and convince ourselves that we are just more mature. Many have renamed loneliness to mean independence.

And because we rarely stop long enough to listen to ourselves, we spend years treating symptoms while ignoring the wound.

The truth is, we can travel the world and still never meet ourselves. We can build successful careers and still not know ourselves.
We can be deeply loved by many people and still feel disconnected from ourselves.

The longest relationship we will ever have is the one we have with the person staring back at us in the mirror. Yet it is often the relationship we neglect the most.

So, let us sit with ourselves sometimes. Without allowing room for distraction. Without noise. Without pretense.

Without trying to be useful or to take on the world.
Let us ask ourselves difficult questions and listen to the uncomfortable answers.

Let us become curious about the people we have become. And if we discover that we are lost, let us find our way back to ourselves again because self-awareness is not a destination. It is a lifelong conversation. We change. We evolve. We outgrow old beliefs, old fears, and old versions of ourselves.

The tragedy is not that we change. The tragedy is when we fail to notice that we have.

I speak for many when I say, some of us feel lost not because we do not know where we are going, but because we have forgotten who is making the journey.
And no destination, achievement, relationship, or applause can replace a healthy relationship with ourselves.

I am learning this too ❤️💫🌞

What a privilege it is to not understand someone else's struggles.

To have lived a life that never forced you to make certain choices.

To have enough money that you have never had to choose between two necessities.

To have been loved in ways that never made you question your worth.

To have had people who showed up for you, so you never had to understand what it feels like to have no one to call.

To have choices where someone else only sees consequences.

We sometimes mistake our own experience for the universal experience.

Because something was easy for you, you assume it should be easy for everyone.

Because you would have handled it differently, you assume their decision was foolish.

Because you have never had to make that choice, you cannot imagine why someone else made it.

But there is humility in recognizing that your experience is only one way of knowing life.

You don't have to understand someone's circumstances before you offer them grace.

You don't have to agree with every decision to remember that you may never know everything that led to it.

Some things are privileges precisely because we rarely have to think about them.

The ability to sleep without worrying about tomorrow.

The ability to say no without fearing what follows.

The ability to make a mistake without losing everything.

The ability to ask for help and actually receive it.

If life has given you enough that certain struggles remain unfamiliar to you, be grateful.

And be careful with your judgment.

There are things you have never had to survive simply because you were fortunate enough to never have to learn how.

That is a privilege.

And privilege should make us gentler, not more judgmental.🌞💫

You're never too old to be great.

The world has a way of making people believe greatness has an expiration date. It tells you that if you haven't "made it" by a certain age, you've missed your chance. But greatness has never cared about calendars.

Some people bloom early. Others spend years gathering wisdom, surviving storms, learning lessons, healing wounds, and becoming the person their purpose requires. A seed buried longer than another is not dead. It is simply growing where no one can see.

There are dreams waiting for people who are 20, 40, 60, and 80. There are books yet to be written, businesses yet to be built, lives yet to be changed, and prayers yet to be answered.

Your age is not evidence that it's too late. It is evidence that you've lived long enough to know things your younger self didn't.

Stop counting the years and start counting the possibilities.

The clock is moving anyway. You might as well become great while it does.💫🌞