Issues Of Life

You left your husband because he was cheating. You have a kid or two. So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left, with the kids. You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman.

You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man. You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he had them.

You do not even question the morality.

You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once in a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife.

You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave your peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains everywhere. Remember Love is beautiful ✍️✍️✍️

BREAKING: Gospel Singer Paul Nwokocha’s Second Marriage Crashes

The marriage between popular gospel singer Paul Nwokocha and his second wife, Mrs. Goodness Nwokocha, has reportedly ended, a family source confirmed to a blogger Promise Uzoma Okoro on Friday Night.

It will be recalled that Paul Nwokocha married Goodness Nwokocha in September 2023. The singer had accused his first wife, Alice Nwokocha, of maltreating him, leading to their separation and his subsequent second marriage to Goodness, who hails from Nkpa in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State.

According to the source, trouble began in May 2024 when the new wife was allegedly subjected to ill treatment by Paul Nwokocha. The source claimed she was treated more like a housemaid than a wife, leading to growing tension in the marriage.

It was also revealed that Mrs. Goodness Nwokocha had no prior relationship with the gospel singer before their marriage. She reportedly relocated from Lagos to marry him at the insistence of his uncles, without conducting any background checks.

As of now, the bride price has been returned to to the family of Paul Nwokocha, signaling the formal end of the union.

Credit: Promise Uzoma Okoro

I need your legal advice.I rented a house in a very remote area for ₦450k. I was told the actual rent is ₦300k, while the remaining ₦150k covers the agreement and lawyer’s fee. My agent took me to the caretaker, who then gave me an account to make the payment. The account belongs to the lawyer managing the house.

Now, this same lawyer is claiming the rent is actually ₦450k and that in subsequent years, I’ll have to pay ₦400k. He’s also insisting I still need to pay ₦50k to sign the agreement. From all indications, he’s inflating the rent to increase his commission, even though I was clearly told otherwise before making the payment. Other tenants are paying 300k.

The fact that I paid directly into his account shows there’s an understanding between him and the caretaker. Even the caretaker confirmed the landlord is aware. He has assured me he’ll get the agreement from the landlord for us to sign, but now the lawyer is threatening to use the police to eject me if I move in.How do I handle this?

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