Eturhobore Ruth O.

You know??
When I hear people complain of the immorality that happens from our dear believers in and outside the vicinity of church especially the s*xual immorality. I will say if they knew better they will act better.

The issue of our ladies becoming the victim of the aftermath of such act. We could pin points teenage pregnancies, traumas, low self esteem, seclusion from the crowd, long standing infections and most times death.

These are just few of the damages it has caused, psychologically and physically to ones life. Now you can imagine the spiritual outcome.

The psychological and mental aspect of attacking s*xual immorality is as important as the spiritual aspect....

And really, parents you can introduce s*x talk in your conversation with your children......
Let them be aware and familiar with the names of their body parts.
Let them be aware of who can touch them and how be very sensitive of how they are being touched.
Let them be aware of your family values

It will go a long way in prepping your kids into teen age, so it made them feel secured, less intimidated by your outlook when coming to you with differs questions and experiences.

Yes! We can tackle this issue from childhood.

Eturhobore Ruth O.

There is a place for disciplining your child but there is also a place for drawing them closer in love and telling them the reason for the discipline.

It's alarming when two people intending to get married still don't see the importance of also preparing holistically( Spiritually, emotionally, socially, financially, mentally and love life) for their children. At that point the welfare of children isn't in view. So they plan the wedding (ceremony), and leave the vital aspect of marriage (Living together)

How many intending couples, come together to have a discuss about what values and legacies should govern their children upbringing.

How many intending couples, come together to scrutinize the wrong perspective in their individual families and say "this one will not happen in mine own family".

How many intending couples, went back in time to their teenage years and pinpointed what he/she should have known that played a key part in traumas, low self esteem, lack of confidence, Peer groups as well as the pressures etc and have decided that this and that will not happen to my children, I know better now".

This is what am talking about, preparing to groom your children holistically. This is only possible when you make provision for it.

What are the structures you are putting in place to make your children (pre teen and teens ) spiritually, socially/emotionally, economically, and love life stable.

What are the systems you have put in place to reduce the overwhelming seasons from your teens.

I leave you with this, Ponder!

Eturhobore Ruth O.

||This has been seating in my mind for a long time now, I will just share it here. Please 🙏do well to read through to the end|| irrespective of how old you are or were when you heard God has call you; light of the world, salt of the earth, beautifully and wonderfully made, Peculiar people etc.... that who you are.

You are not your own. You a product of his creativity played out in human form. When he finished creating you he said to himself, "this is good".

You are Special, you are His very own Special Species, Mandated to show forth His glory on the cosmos.

God was particular about you when he was creating you. God was so detailed that he knows the number of hair strands that are on your head. Yes he is.
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He did not just create you, He chose you to be His own. He selected you, He hand picked you specifically to be His own. What a privilege to partner with such a force. What a privilege to reckon with such an Identity. He is more than a partnership with several international brands put together.

Please know who you are, you are not ordinary. How can an extraordinary God create you and you will be ordinary..... Help me and shout IMPOSSICANT!

Eturhobore Ruth O.

I love seeing beautiful things like this...

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Can we learn to recognize distractions and silence them??....

Can we learn to recognize distractions and give them an instant shut off??....

Can we learn to recognize distractions and don't give it a chance ever again to steal our time??

Can we learn to recognize distractions and not build up on them??

This is very expedient in our journey to purpose. Truth be told, distractions has robbed us of our precious time, it has taken that which is not his and kept us abated for some time. It has make our destiny journey of no effect.

T will be collapsed our destinies testimonies if not put on check really fast. Your destiny and mine destiny does not need nonchalant attitudes to keep it running else we will never fulfill our divine assignment. The people tied to your destiny needs urgency, please don't keep them waiting for long. Your world needs to know the God stuff you were made from, so they can glorify your God.

Fight distraction with the whole of your might. It's an enemy of your destiny. Recognize and kill it instantly so it won't tamper with your destiny.

Eturhobore Ruth O.

Thank you for the cross Lord
Thank you for the price you paid, sharing all my sins and shame and all you paid and gave me an amazing grace.....🎶🎶🙌🙌

Young guys dating someone else's daughter knowing fully well that you will not marry her, please do make sure to handle her with care just the way you want your wife to be handled who is in the arms of another guy.