Everyday With Juliet

I can forgive cheating.

I cannot forgive polygamy.

Yes, I said it.

Cheating is wrong.

But cheating is a mistake at times.

Polygamy is a decision.

If a husband cheats and repents, we can sit down, talk, pray, rebuild and continue our marriage.

But polygamy?

You will wake up and see competition in your sitting room.

You will see your co-wife in your kitchen.
You will be scheduling your husband like NEPA timetable.

No, thank you.

Cheating hides in shame.

Polygamy stands boldly and says, “Madam, move small.”

I am not built for competition in my own marriage.

If you want two wives, please carry your constitution and go elsewhere.

My marriage is not a tournament.

Our Marriages must work.

Very pathetic

“Ify called me yesterday morning, at about 8:30am.
She said, “Emy, don’t p@nic, but I have just been bitt£n by a snak£. I’m on my way to the hospital.”

I asked her how it happened because I was in sh0ck.
She said she was sleeping and felt p@in. When she opened her eyes, she saw the snak£.

I realised that wasn’t the time to ask too many questions, so I cut the call and called her back immediately with my smaller phone, using the bigger one to call people I knew in Abuja because she was going to the hospital alone.
Hand tied, just by herself.

Divine Health Hospital,
Trade Mall Road (Lugbe, Abuja).
That was the first hospital she went to.

When she got there, they immediately said they didn’t have the anti-v£nom and could not help her, so she booked another ride immediately to get to a hospital that might have it.

Note that while all this was happening, I was still on a call with her.
Never hung up.

She was speaking fine with me. Her hand was tied, and she was in a ride headed to Federal Medical Centre, Abuja.
We got to the next hospital some minutes to 10am, at which point she was still speaking with me.

When she got to the second hospital, she went into the emergency department and they started b0mbarding her with questions.
I was still on the call with her and it was irritating me. I kept saying, what are they doing?

I asked if they had the anti-v£nom, and she said they told her they would give her a drip.

The doctor removed the stuff she used to tie her hand to prevent the circulation of the v£n0m and kept telling her to calm down.
She immediately told me, “Emy, they have removed the thing I used to tie my hand.”

I felt okay since she was at the hospital and thought the doctors should know better than me. I encouraged her to calm down.

When the drip was in, she started feeling dizzy and her tongue wasn’t speaking well again. That was when I let her relax and ended the call.

At that point, my uncle I had contacted in Abuja was already at the hospital with her, so I felt a bit of relief, thinking she was getting all the treatment she needed.

Now, when they l0$t her, I started seeing people saying she was bitt£n at night or the day before but only came yesterday — which was a li£.
Doctors saying she wasn’t talking properly and came in late.

She came in by herself with both legs, without any help. I was speaking with her through it all. She was very audible.

Why did they remove the stuff she tied to prevent the spread of the v£n0m?
Why tell her to calm down and proceed to put a drip?

Did they even have the anti-v£n0m at this second hospital?

The hospital fail£d her and doubled down to li£ about everything.
I hat£ the country so much.

We had such a great time together in Abuja this past Christmas.
How was I to know it would be the last time with you?

She was still speaking fluently with me and even sent me this video…” -

The brother of late Nigerian singer Ifunanya Nwangene, popularly known as Nanyah, has shared a heartbre@king account of her final hours after she d!£d from a snak£ bit£ in Abuja.

“.Chinelo Rita cooks from the heart and shares with everyone — free meals, full of love. Let’s celebrate her kindness. ❤️🍲 ”

Many relationships break down not because love is absent, but because expectations don’t match reality.

If you want to be with a wealthy man, then go for a wealthy man. If you truly desire to build with a struggling man, then accept his reality and walk the journey of growth with him.

The conflict begins when someone chooses a struggling man and immediately starts demanding that he turns wealthy overnight. Pressure replaces patience, comparison replaces encouragement, and love slowly turns into resentment.

The truth is simple: everyone has a choice. If you crave comfort, stability, and luxury, find someone who already lives that life. If you believe in growth, patience, and building from scratch, then choose someone on that path and embrace the process.

Love requires honesty—not just with your partner, but with yourself. Don’t choose one thing and secretly desire another. Know your taste, accept your choice, and commit without regrets.

After all, real peace comes not from trying to change someone into what you want, but from accepting them as they are and building with what you both have.

💭 Would you rather build with someone from scratch or join someone who already has it all? Let’s talk.

Your body is precious stop handing it over to anybody...Ruth Kedira

If the money you are looking for is to take care of your family, May God make you a millionaire Amen.

Many spend huge amount of money for this yet you thrown the one you carried for 9months after the pains and suffering...Tufiakwa.

This federal university(FUNAI) in this our community has done more harm than good to us. 😭

Tell me why I woke up this morning and this new born baby is lying on our land without cloth under this rain and cold. 😭😭

Why carry a child till 9months if you don’t want the child? 🥹 coming home is no longer fun for me as it use to be since this federal university entered.

🗣️ Gossip Destroys Quietly 💔

One unverified story...
One careless whisper...
And suddenly, families are torn, friends become enemies, and well-wishers disappear.

Gossip isn’t just “talk” — it kills trust, damages reputations, and ruins lives.

✅ Before you repeat anything, ask yourself:
Is it true?
Is it necessary?
Is it kind?

Let your words heal, not harm.
Speak peace. Not poison. 🕊️

😳😱We Heard this Bird Can Keep Malice for Africa 😆🤣👇🏾 |

Read👇🏾

"One unfortunate mistake you can make is to keel this bird when another one is a witness.

They are very intelligent and they know how to keep malice.

They will tell their group what you did and they will beef you for years. They’ll pass it down from generation to generation until you move out of that area.

They will s**t on your clothes outside, your cars and anything that belongs to you.

Don’t believe me? Go find their trouble."