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One day, you’ll look in the mirror and realize you lost yourself trying not to lose them.

You stopped going out.
Stopped posting.
Stopped talking to friends.
You became smaller, quieter, and less yourself just to keep someone who was comfortable with your sacrifice.

please, don’t disappear just to make someone stay.

Love should not cost you your identity.

If you have to lose yourself to keep them, they were never worth losing you for. 💔
be honest: what’s the biggest part of yourself you’ve ever sacrificed just to keep a relationship alive? 👇🏽

Father, I don't just want a relationship that exists, I want one that is peaceful.
No more confusion. No more walking on eggshells.
Let my home, my heart, and my mind have peace. Amen 🙏

Let's be honest
Is it okay for a married woman to have a male bestie her husband doesn’t know about?

Friendship or disrespect?
Normal or already crossing the line?
What’s your take?👇

Today, I pray for discernment. 🙏🏽
Father, open my eyes to see every fake love, hidden jealousy, and wrong connection. Protect my heart and guide me away from those who are not truly for me.
Amen. 🙏🏽

There's this girl I've been seeing. She visited me twice - no cooking, no sweeping, nothing. I ignored it.

On our first date, she ordered expensive food and drinks, ate small and left the rest. I told her to take it home, she said no.
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I proposed that same night and she said YES.

Few weeks later she said she's hungry, let's go to that same expensive restaurant. I took taxi to meet her. She had already ordered before I came.
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I said, "You won't finish it, let me eat from yours." She said, "From the same plate? People will think we can't afford food!"

I told her, "We can afford it, but we shouldn't waste food."
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She got angry and said she will pay for her own food. So I should buy mine.

I said I'm not eating. She ordered for both of us anyway. This time she didn't even touch the food, only sipped her drink and told them to clear the table.
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When bill came, I paid for mine and left hers , since she said she will pay.

She paid and walked away angry. She didn't pick my calls. Yesterday she called that I should come and collect my ring.
​Guys, should I beg her or is this a red flag?

This week, may God go before you.
Where others are struggling, you will find favour.
Where doors were closed, yours will open.

May your week be soft and peaceful.
Amen

Love alone is NOT enough for marriage o! 😂❤️
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You need friendship...
You need patience...
And you need GOD to hold everything together. 🙏
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If you have a partner who is also your best friend, my dear, you are BLESSED!

Tag that one person you are grateful for today. Let them know you appreciate them 👇
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