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Somethings to Tell Your Daughters as They Grow

**By Frieden, Gospel Artist from Nigeria**

1. **Financial Independence:** Teach your daughter that money has no gender. She can make money just as any man can, and even more.

2. **Integrity in Earning:** Encourage her to earn her money through hard work, not through compromising her values. Money earned with dignity is far more valuable.

3. **Intellectual Power:** Let her know that her brain, not her body, is her greatest asset in making money.

4. **Self-Sufficiency:** Train her to aspire to be financially independent, rather than seeking a wealthy partner.

5. **Ambition:** Teach her to aim high, encouraging her to become a leader, rather than hoping to marry one.

6. **Wisdom in Wealth:** Emphasize that true wealth comes from intellect and hard work, not superficial means.

7. **Focus:** Teach her to focus on her goals. Success will follow and attract the right kind of attention.

8. **Spiritual Foundation:** Remind her that no man can love her like God does. Her relationship with God should never be compromised.

9. **Online Caution:** Advise her that the internet never forgets. What she posts today can impact her future.

10. **Time Management:** Stress the importance of time. Wasting time with the wrong person can lead to regret.

11. **Karma:** Teach her that life returns what you put into it. Acts of kindness and integrity will be rewarded.

12. **True Beauty:** True beauty lies in grace and modesty, not in exposing oneself.

13. **Self-Respect:** Instill in her that she is a princess and should always carry herself with dignity.

14. **Respect for Marriage:** It's important to respect the sanctity of marriage and avoid relationships with married men.

15. **Reality of Affairs:** Let her know that married men often see affairs as physical escapism, not genuine love.

16. **Best Friend:** God should be her closest confidant; He will never disappoint her.

17. **Beauty and Brains:** Emphasize that intelligence adds depth to beauty.

18. **Self-Belief:** Encourage her to believe in her abilities and strive to achieve her goals.

19. **False Beliefs:** Wealth is not sexually transmitted. Emphasize the value of hard work over compromising relationships.

20. **Character Over Looks:** Teach her that a man’s character is more important than his appearance.

21. **Avoiding Trouble:** Warn her about the dangers of being a "run girl"; it often leads to trouble.

22. **Non-Negotiable Faith:** Knowing God and living righteously should be non-negotiable.

23. **Value of Time:** Time is precious and waits for no one. Encourage her to make the most of it.

24. **Self-Reliance:** No one wants a liability. Teach her to be a partner who contributes, not just takes.

25. **Financial Independence:** She must have her own source of income to maintain her dignity and independence.

26. **Discernment:** Not everything that glitters is gold. Teach her to discern true value from illusions.

27. **Preserve Her Dignity:** Her body is not for sale. Preserve it for the man who deserves it after marriage.

28. **Resilience:** Teach her that failure is just a detour, not the end.

29. **Limitless Potential:** There is no height she cannot attain if she dares to believe and work towards it.

30. **Healthy Relationships:** Courtship is not marriage. She can walk away from any relationship that shows red flags.

31. **Pre-Marital Breakup:** A broken courtship is not a divorce. It’s okay to end a relationship before marriage.

32. **Self-Affirmation:** Teach her that she is beautiful, and to believe it herself, not just from others’ validation.

33. **Future Impact:** Warn her that being a run girl can ruin her future and destiny.

34. **Marriage vs. Wedding:** Preparing for marriage is more important than preparing for a wedding.

35. **Essentials of Marriage:** Love alone is not enough. Commitment, faithfulness, and communication are key.

36. **Attitude Matters:** Attitude is more important than beauty.

37. **Effort and Reward:** Hard work brings favor.

38. **Respect in Marriage:** She is to submit to her husband, not to every man.

39. **Marital Choices:** Marriage choices can bring either pain or gain. Choose wisely.

40. **True Love:** Not all who profess love truly possess it. Some may just love the idea of physical gratification.

Conclusion

Empower your daughters with wisdom, self-respect, and faith. These teachings will guide them towards a fulfilling and dignified life.

Embrace your identity!!!!!
Happy weekend 😊