II Conversation

PEACE

It's highly impossible to restore time when it's gone. The average time spent doing something negative could be used to improve your FAMILY, COMMUNITY, and SOCIETY at large. You only realize that it's frustrating when you think the time has caught up. But, the worst is, you keep stocking yourself. You can't develop if you spent the developmental stage of your life playing, acting negatively. If you must develop, you must consider time as a competitor. The faster you move, the better chance you have for accomplishment.

Many people start up with fantastic or brilliant ideas but, after a moment, it's all gone. They will think about achieving a particular goal at a certain time in point but, after a moment, switch to something different. And, they think the ideas are enough that they just can't hold back. But, the truth is, they're going nowhere.

You can't create a goal that, you have no passion to drive. And, if you do, It's like starting an engine of a car without any idea to drive it. So, set a goal that you're passionate to achieve. And, let passion drive you through.

You can't make a difference if you're still pressing yourself down. You just can't make any difference if you're still considering your comfort zone as a possible chance. Think about it, how possible could it be to take something above you without standing, and without extended support - understand that the extended support might not away be available? You just can't make it. So, if you want to make a difference, you must STAND UP, and NEVER GIVE UP

Story: "BE Good"

A woman went looking for a job. She has walked a mile distance but could not get a job. Everywhere she went, she would be denied. But, she never give up till she met a job. But, when she was invited for the job interview, the interviewer appears to be her Father Ex-Driver. When she reached the interview room and met the Ex-Driver, she lost confidence - as her father was never a good Bossman;

It was time for the interview. And the interview begins......

Interviewer: Do you remember me
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Girl: Yes, you're my father Ex-Driver
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Interviewer: Do you need the job
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Girl: Yes, I am really in need. I lost my father and lost all the properties. My father credited from the back but couldn't payback. So, the bank took everything as a replacement for the loan.
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Interviewer: Oh! I'm so sorry. But, do you remember the last help you give me?
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Girl: I can't
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Interviewer / Ex-Driver: When I needed USD 300 to keep me in school for a semester. I pleaded to your father but he refused. You heard the conversation, and help me.
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Girl: It was just the act of my kindness
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Interviewer / Ex-Driver: But, it was an act of banking kindness; so, today, you will withdraw without a bank account. You will not just get the job but you will be placed in a higher position;
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Girl: She couldn't get over it. She thought the Ex-Driver would have treated her like her father.

LESSON:

Sometimes, we take status as a permanent position; we abuse people because they're walking for us; we would even treat them as our kids at home. But, everything we do has an effect; either it affects you positively or negatively. So, never treat people in the wrong forum; if that girl wouldn't have been good to that Ex-Driver, he would have rejected her for the offer. But, her single kindness created a kindness bank.