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I used to talk to Betty Bayo for over an hour and would jokingly ask her to sneak out from her husband and come over - Kanyari

Having s£x with him during his hustling stage doesn’t mean you were truly there for him when he had nothing.
Support is not measured by intimacy—it’s measured by your contribution, your presence, your patience, and your character.

Many women confuse being available with being supportive.
But support is shown in actions, not in moments of pleasure.
If you didn’t help him grow, build, encourage, or stand with him in the difficult parts of his journey, then you were not part of the foundation—just part of the experience.

Poor communication between husband and wife is responsible for the chaos we witness in marriages,couples should learn to talk about issues disturbing each of them..this applies to those who want their marriage to succeed..it doesn't include those who abuse others physically and emotionally..though if it's no longer working let it go

Be humble and never think you are better than anyone else we all leave this world with nothing

A man separating two fighting women is allowed to touch anywhere ~ Nyatike Proverb

" A thief who repents will make the Best watchman every

WHY MEN REPLACE WIVES WITH THE MAID.

( NOT ALL MEN)

Most women become very lazy immediately after the wedding.

Some can't even brush their teeth before bed time.

they sleep with a belted jeans with a t-shirt gifted from a politicians,writen on "Ruto tano tena" or "Senyenge ni ng'ombe"

Spreading the bed becomes an issue.

nguo zimetapakaa bedroom inakaa kikomba.

They take marriage as an achievement and a place of rest.

not knowing that WORK has BEGAN

Marriage is HARD WORK....it's not for the feint hearted
Marriage isn’t for everyone.

The soft spoken girl called 'Auntie', wakes up early each morning prepare the husband to work.

akikosa socks anauliza maid." Niletee maji ya kubrush"

while the wife is half death on bed

S*x can't keep a man.

The maid remains awake long hours at night waiting for him from a business trip.

Aunty opens the gate and welcomes him with a smile.
she serves him silently but sometimes forced to ask him "nikuletee chuvi"

while the wife pretends to be so tired.

Men hate women who are always complaining,never active in the house,mood swing s full of bad attitude

He married for companion.

He needs someone to talk to, when he arrives home.

Someone to encourage him after along tiresome day.
Someone to pray for him and welcomes him with sweet words " beib umechoka sana " utakunya chai "utaoga"

The wife is creating an avenue where this man interacts more with the maid.

They are slowly bonding.

The man finds it easy to ask the maid about most of the things in the house.

the wife is moodless and always wants to talk about what her mother said." "Mamangu alisema niende weekend"

Auntie know what the children love most.

The way to a man's heart is through the stomach.

During weekends Auntie prepares those soft chapatis with a very nice stew while the wife is just busy on her phone.

only to say " chapo za Auntie ni tamu"

Maid handles the children well than mama who becomes irritated after spending just an hour with them

“WHEN YOU CHASE S*X, YOU DELAY SUCCESS”

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)

Let’s tell the truth a lot of men won’t admit:

It’s not village people holding you back — it’s va**na.
You’re not broke because of bad luck…
You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure.

Every time you chase s*x, you’re pushing success further away.

Let’s break it down like men:

1. S*x Is the Most Expensive Free Thing

You think it’s just “ordinary” s*x?
No problem.

But check your life…

Since you started jumping from woman to woman, what has grown?
Your goals?
Or your excuses?

You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…
While your destiny is stuck on pause.

2. Lust Makes Men Lazy

You were meant to build.
You were born to conquer.
But now you’re just h***y, hungry, and distracted.

Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.
Instead of building skills, you’re building body counts.

No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM.

3. Every Round Is a Round Lost

Every round of s*x you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry…

You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition.

Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waist.
They’re building empires — you’re building libido.

This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty.

You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it.

4. The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Feels Like “Escape”

She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.
You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing.

That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup.

She’s not building you. She’s draining you.
And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort.

5. Women Are Not the Problem — Your Discipline Is

S*x is not evil. Women are not the enemy.

But lack of control? That’s your downfall.

You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.
You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come

Siku hizi ndoa hazikai sababu unakosana na mke wako kwa issue kidogo,kumbe mamake ni single mother who left her marriage due to lack of respect for her husband and does not know the value of husband, instead of advising her daughter to to look for better ways of solving the difference with the husband mother will only advice her to leave the relationship.
Be a parent who value the marital status of his/her kids.Watoto wanaitaji Baba ili wakuwe na heshima apo mbeleni Mnasikia wakuu

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