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What do you want to have happen now? Psychotherapy Counselling Psychotherapy Counselling Coaching NLP and CBT Therapy. Friendly supportive effective therapy.
Anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Phobias, Worry, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Depression, Stuck, Life change, Change of Direction, Relationships, Couples, Divorcing, Newly Single, Psycho-sexual, Gender and Sexual Diversity (GSD) Aware, Knowledgeable and Friendly

Join us today for another session of the Workshop - ADHD & Men with Paula Sheridan.
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RSD is the worst, but it’s not your fault 💚 #adhd #neurodivergent

Many of you know that I am always promoting resilience. Some of you know that I practise what I preach. Here is a brilliant course in resilience that has inspired me further over the last few years. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvVOaG1Q1B-vxfjZ1UCoWB0seX5GJMGS0&si=tPcZ5QNc-QUQAGws.
How to grow resilience How to grow resilience series.

Make an appointment with me if you are struggling or think you may.

Interested in learning about ADHD and Autism?
Early Bird Sale Now On! Research has shown over several decades that it is very common for autistic individuals to have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, with some research studies estimating the co-occurrence is up to 70%. Even if the person does not meet the full diagnostic criteria for ADHD, they have daily p...

Don't keep your difficult past inside. Share with someone. Choose a good listener and gentle but positive soul.
Should You Tell Someone About Your Trauma? Secrecy can lead to shame and make it harder to heal.

Happy Solstice to all. May this season bring blessings and abundance of flowering and fruiting of your goals. Sun is at his maximum height and maximum strength. Bringing warmth and growth.
Love is a verb not a feeling. Kids know this.
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?'
'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore... So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.' Rebecca - age 8
'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.' Billy - age 4
'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.' Karl - age 5
'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.' Chrissy - age 6
'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.' Terri - age 4
'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.' Danny - age 8
'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and just listen.' Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.' Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day.' Noelle - age 7
'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.' Tommy - age 6
'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.' Cindy - age 8
'My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.' Clare - age 6
'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.' Elaine - age 5
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.' Chris - age 7
'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.' Mary Ann - age 4
'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.' Lauren - age 4
'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image!) Karen - age 7
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross...' Mark - age 6
'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.' Jessica - age 8
And the final one: The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, 'Nothing, I just helped him cry.'
Love is a verb. It is something you do. You can feel and you can say. Its not love till you do loving.
Do you want to "Live your Life on Purpose"? Do you want to be able to look back on what you've done and be satisfied?
Follow these tips:
Reflect on Your Values and Priorities: Think about what truly matters to you. For instance, if health is a core value, a new habit could be to eat more fermented foods. By aligning with your values, such as valuing well-being, you’re more likely to stay motivated.
Realistic and Specific Goals: Consider the resolution of learning a new skill. Instead of setting a broad goal like “learn a language,” break it down to a specific and achievable objective like “practice Spanish for 20 minutes every day.” This specificity makes the goal more tangible.
Create a Concrete Plan: Let’s say your resolution is to achieve a better work-life balance. Your plan could involve setting boundaries, scheduling breaks, and designating specific work hours. A concrete plan helps turn aspirations into actionable steps.
Utilize the SMART Criteria: If your resolution involves financial goals, such as saving money, make it SMART. For instance, “Save £100 per month for six months to create an emergency fund.” This framework provides a clear roadmap for success.
Establish a Support System: Imagine your resolution is to improve mental well-being. Share this goal with a friend or family member who can provide encouragement and understanding. A supportive network is invaluable, especially when facing challenges.
Monitor and Celebrate Progress: Whether your resolution is related to fitness or learning, tracking progress is crucial. Celebrate achievements, like completing a challenging workout or mastering a new recipe. Acknowledging milestones reinforces your commitment.
Address Procrastination: For instance, if you’re procrastinating on a work-related resolution, break it down. Set a timer for focused work intervals using the Pomodoro Technique. This technique minimizes procrastination by breaking tasks into manageable segments.
Cultivate a Growth Mindset: Consider a resolution related to personal development. Embrace challenges and setbacks as opportunities to learn. If faced with a setback, view it as a stepping stone towards growth, rather than a roadblock.
Learn from Setbacks: Perhaps your resolution involves a healthier lifestyle. If you end up drinking too much one weekend, reflect on what led to it and adjust your plan accordingly. Learning from setbacks helps refine your approach.
Seek Professional Support: If your resolution is overcoming a specific fear, seeking professional support can be transformative. As your CBT psychotherapist, I am here to offer personalised strategies and guidance tailored to your journey.
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