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10 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T TELL TO ANYONE.
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In a relationship, whether married or still in courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.

1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against them.
2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from outside while you settle issues from inside.
3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.
4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.
5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous Mother inlaw.
6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.
7. Even your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as sermon. Just talk to God alone.
8. Don't tell the children that their father is a bad man. It can make them hate him.
9. Don't tell anybody your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.
10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love

WITHOUT RESPECT,,LOVE IS LOST.
WITHOUT CARING,,LOVE IS BORING.
WITHOUT HONESTY,,LOVE IS UNHAPPY.
WITHOUT TRUST,,LOVE IS UNSTABLE.

Build your home and enjoy ur relationship quys.

This one cracked me up

HUSBAND AND WIFE, SO SILENT IN BED
(Wife Thinking)
Why is he not talking to me?
Is he thinking of another woman?
Is he seeing someone else?
Don't I appeal to him anymore? Is he
trying to dump me?
Is he now finding me ugly?
Does my makeup repel him these days?
He didn't speak with me since he came
in.
I know his mother does not like me May
be they are
arranging another wife for him. Is this
how I will end up a single mother...?
God, please save my marriage.
WHY IS HE UPSET?
She gathered courage and asked him,
"honey why
didn't you talk to me? Wat did I do to
deserved all
this ?" Tears on her eyes.. . . .
The husband turns and look at her with
his red eyes,
angry face, and then angrily replied... .
"How on earth could Manchester City loose 2 - 0 to Chelsea...when we
have Sterling, Mahrez and Silva on
the pitch?" LESSON
Some times women worry over
NOTHING.😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

I got this and thought to share with you!!!

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

To all d beautiful people over there one love.

Every blessed day of ur life is a gift from God almighty, pls don't waste it!

Relationship work. Relationship work, is a page created by someone who has study what it takes to have a great relationship..

Learn to know and understand ur partner.

To love someone in a special way is a gift from God,but to keep falling in love with d same person over and over again is a blessing from God almighty.