Inner Counsel Therapy
Support for understanding thoughts, emotions, and behaviours without self-criticism.
Drawing on diverse therapeutic approaches in high-pressure professional settings, creating space to untangle mental noise, reconnect with what matters, and find clarity. Stefan Jürgens, RP (Qualifying), is the founder of Inner Counsel Psychotherapy and a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). After nearly 20 years as a law librarian—where he navigated complex legal issues and the human stories b
04/11/2026
Ever feel drained even when no one else is pushing you? You might be crossing your own personal boundaries without realizing it.
Discover how tuning in to your internal limits can change everything.
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Are You Crossing Your Own Personal Boundaries Without Knowing It? Personal boundaries are not barriers. They are an honest account of what you can and can't give.
04/08/2026
Feeling stretched too thin and exhausted by “doing it all”?
Discover why your constant yes may be costing your well-being and how small boundary changes can give you back your time, energy, and peace of mind.
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Setting Boundaries: Why 'Doing It All' Is Making You Miserable (And What You Can Do Instead) Feeling guilty doesn't mean you're doing something wrong; it often just means you're doing something different from what others expect or what you've always done. This is an important distinction.
04/01/2026
Ever agree to something and regret it the moment you press send?
Saying no can feel surprisingly difficult, even when you are exhausted.
Here is why it happens and how to start setting boundaries without guilt.
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Why Saying No Feels So Hard (And How to Get Better at It) Saying no to what drains you is a way of saying yes to yourself.
03/25/2026
Staying informed shouldn’t come at the cost of your mental health.
Here are practical strategies for managing news anxiety while remaining engaged with the world.
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How to Manage News Anxiety Without Burning Out Caring doesn't require constant availability, and being informed does not require saturation.
03/18/2026
Does reading the news ever leave you feeling tense, foggy, or strangely on edge even before your day begins?
You’re not imagining it. Our nervous systems weren’t designed for a constant stream of global crises.
In this article, I explore news anxiety: why it happens, why it’s becoming so common, and why feeling overwhelmed by the headlines is actually a very human response.
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When the News Won't Stop: Understanding News Anxiety Managing news anxiety isn't about caring less. It's about protecting our ability to care over the long haul.
01/22/2026
Winter mental health can bring lower energy and a pull inward. A thoughtful reflection on seasonal slowing, self-compassion, and practical ways to care for yourself through winter.
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When Winter Asks You to Do Less: Understanding Winter Mental Health Winter is not asking us to perform. It’s asking us to adjust.
01/20/2026
That quiet, relentless inner voice can shape how you see yourself and the world. Explore how inner critics form, why they persist, and how therapy can help you relate to them with more choice, compassion, and steadiness.
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When Your Inner Critic Won't Shut Up: Soften the Voice Inside Not fixing what's broken, but discovering what becomes possible when you meet yourself with understanding instead of force.
01/05/2026
Most New Year's resolutions fail by mid-February. Not because you lack discipline—but because self-criticism kills motivation.
The alternative? Self-compassion. It's not about lowering standards. It's about responding to setbacks with curiosity instead of shame.
If your resolutions already feel heavy, there's a kinder way forward.
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The Problem With New Year's Resolutions & What to Do Change doesn’t begin with pressure. It begins with emotional safety.
12/15/2025
Wondering why progress feels slow in therapy? This post explains how regular sessions help build trust, deepen insight, and create lasting change. Learn simple strategies to stay engaged between appointments and make the most of every session.
Ready to feel more supported and grounded? Book a free 15-minute consultation to get started.
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The Secret to Getting the Most Out of Therapy? Consistency Therapy becomes a steady anchor, a place to return each week and check in with yourself.
12/07/2025
Holiday stress can add up fast. If the season feels overwhelming or exhausting, you’re not alone. My latest post explores why holiday burnout happens—and how small moments of care can make a meaningful difference.
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Managing Stress, Anxiety, and Holiday Burnout The holidays do not need to be perfect. They only need to feel like yours | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy
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