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Heart Desires and Head Desires

Heart - something that never goes away no matter how you try to push it down or apply logic to it. It’s there, placed in your heart by the Creator. It’s what you were meant to do in this lifetime. Your soul mission. You can choose to ignore it but it will transcend lifetimes until it comes to pass. It is a desire that is pure, and feels peaceful when fulfilled.

Head - you get a sense of high when achieved. But it’s temporary and feels like “Now, what?” after you get it. Then you go chasing the next goal, the next target. The desire was not actually yours but one conditioned by society, or planted in your mind by somebody else… say standards set by parents, peers, career, social media.

My heart kept leading me back to being a manifestation and mindset coach. I tried to hide it from people I know, even going to lengths of setting up another social media account lest I get judged and ridiculed for not doing the norm and being spiritual. I even tried to change the title to something more logical sounding so it doesn’t appear woo-woo to people who don’t get it. I also tried other ways of side hustling (still with self-development) but it didn’t feel authentic at all. It felt like I muted myself and spoke in muffled tones.

I see that all these years, getting the Canadian education and moving up at work were the realizations of my head desires. While I worked hard for them and am truly grateful for them, my Higher Self is calling me to honor my heart’s desire and actively move towards it this time. No more dabbling, getting certifications and setting them aside. More importantly, implement the learnings and impart the knowledge- not keep them to myself.

If you’ve made reading it this far, thank you for letting me introduce you to the real me. Personal development ju**ie who loves mindset and energy work - spirituality and science combined. Cheers to showing the world your true, quirky and sparkly self! 🥂 ✨🩷

Ever felt that when you ask for something like a character trait or a virtue, you get all sorts of situations to practice it?
That’s the Universe responding to your request.

I once asked for patience and boy, did God give me a whole lot of instances to practice patience! Some of them leading me to tell Him with gritted teeth and anger, “Lord, you try me so much!!!”

Late last year, I asked for transformation, better finances and abundance. Believe me, the things that he threw my way are not for the faint of heart. I fought my way through and prayed for easier ways to get to my goals, but the avenues He presented me were not the ones I expected! Took me years of personal development and spiritual practice to respond to it calmly… though it did shake me and got my nervous system off kilter. But I got through it all. Whew!

Now, I'm being veered towards the path of healing my nervous system - the baseline for everything, AND, priming up myself to get back to my coaching practice. It’s been a while and oh, how I missed it! Enjoying the journey as I go. Thanks to my longtime cutthroat mentors who lit a fire under my butt! Haha! I’m falling back in love with life and coming around to doing what I am genuinely passionate about… again!

Cheers!

I ride forward as the woman I’ve become.

This is where everything integrates.

You are no longer chasing wealth.
You are moving with it.

The hesitation has softened.
The identity has shifted.
The standards have risen.
The self-trust has deepened.

This is what embodiment feels like.

Not perfect.
But grounded.
Stable.
True.

Fire in your direction.
Calm in your body.
Clarity in your movement.

You’re not becoming her anymore.

You are her.

And from here — you ride forward differently.

With power.
With presence.
With self-love as your foundation.

This is your new baseline.

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I lead myself like a wealthy woman.

Leadership doesn’t start when others follow you.

It starts in how you lead yourself.

How you speak to yourself.
How you make decisions.
How you hold your standards.
How you care for your energy.

The wealthy woman doesn’t wait for external validation to step into leadership.

She claims it internally first.
She chooses alignment over approval.
Standards over comfort.
Truth over performance.

And from that place, everything else aligns.

You don’t become her later.

You lead as her now.

Drop a 👑 if you feel it.

I stay with myself through expansion.

For many people, things getting better can feel just as uncomfortable as things falling apart.

More visibility.
More responsibility.
More success.

It can trigger old patterns of self-protection.
Pulling back.
Overthinking.
Self-sabotaging.

But the wealthy woman stays.

She doesn’t abandon herself when things expand.
She breathes through it.
She grounds into it.
She allows herself to be in the new level.

Because wealth requires presence.
You can’t hold what you keep running from.

Stay with yourself.
Even when it feels unfamiliar.
Especially then.

Comment “I stay with myself.”

I earn and receive cleanly.

Mature wealth feels clean.

No guilt.
No over-explaining.
No emotional heaviness attached to receiving.

Just aligned exchange.

You give value.
You receive compensation.
The energy moves freely.

The wealthy woman doesn’t complicate this.

She doesn’t attach her worth to every transaction.
She doesn’t shrink when money comes in.
She allows it.

Because clean money energy creates flow.
And flow creates expansion.
The less resistance you hold around money, the more naturally it moves.

Save this money reset.

Pleasure expands my wealth.

You were never meant to build a life you can’t enjoy.
But somewhere along the way, many women learned to associate success with pressure… not pleasure.

The wealthy woman rewrites that.
She allows joy.
She allows ease.
She allows herself to feel good while building.

Because pleasure tells the nervous system: “This is safe. We can have more of this.”
And when something feels safe, it expands.

Enjoyment is not a distraction from success.
It’s a magnet for it.

Let it feel good.
Let it be light.
Let it be yours.

Drop a ✨ if you’re letting it feel good.