Good Ember

You love them. You chose them. You still find them attractive. Yet, the butterflies are gone? You are not broken, ungrateful, or secretly incompatible. You are experiencing something very common in long-term relationships, especially for women.

I love my partner. Why am I bored? Why desire fades in long-term relationships and how intentional novelty can bring back sexual tension and excitement.

This isn’t a “rip the paper under the tree” kind of gift.
It’s a “wait until the doors are locked and everyone’s gone to bed” kind of gift.
One last present. For the two of you.
The kind that ties the night together nicely.
We can’t promise what happens next. But we can promise they’ll remember it.

Somewhere along the way, Santa got hot. There is, quite literally, a Santa fe**sh.

Why does Christmas, of all cultural moments, lend itself so awkwardly to erotic reinterpretation? Read on at The Kinkist.

Is Christmas sexy now? Christmas is supposed to be comforting and nostalgic. But somewhere along the way, Santa got hot. Why? Because Christmas is saturated with power, reward, and anticipation.

Good news: You’re still on the nice list.

Which is impressive, considering the gift you’re about to give is definitely not meant for the living room.

Our Gift Box Secret Sale is on, and it’s the perfect excuse to offer something meant to be unwrapped privately, preferably with the door locked.

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Bonne nouvelle, vous êtes toujours sur la liste des sages.

Ce qui est plutôt remarquable, sachant que le cadeau que vous vous apprêtez à offrir n’est certainement pas destiné à être placé sous le sapin.

Notre promotion secrète sur les coffrets cadeaux est en cours et c’est l’excuse parfaite pour offrir quelque chose qui s’ouvre en privé, idéalement porte verrouillée.

Les dates limites d’expédition approchent. Commandez avant le 17 décembre pour une livraison avant Noël.

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