Radiant Core Solutions

We are like the moon. We see it in phases. New moon, crescent, 1st quarter, full moon etc. sometimes the shadow side is more other times it shines bright. We often don’t think of the moon as whole. It doesn’t change no matter what we call it. It’s the reflection of the sun.

No matter what we are feeling or being called we need to remember we are whole and complete. Sometimes we are stuck and our shadow side is large and other times we shine bright and others we share bits of ourself. One thing is for sure we are always whole and complete. We often don’t see ourselves like that.

Doing our work allows us to shine brighter as we learn we don’t have to dim our light for others or ourselves.

Assumed expectations always get us into trouble. We expect people to know what our vision is, how we see things and what we are thinking from the same perspective. When they don’t we are shocked, disappointed, frustrated, And we will do this over and over expecting different results, that they will get it right one of these times.

When we meet people where they are at and accept them there. Then we don’t have to suffer as we know what to expect and can adjust accordingly.

As a recovering people pleaser it was hard for me a dream. I only helped other peoples dreams. By using EFT I was able to set healthy boundaries and know it was okay for me to start dreaming.

So often we put ourself last and forget that it’s okay for us to dream and find happiness for ourself. If you are wanting more and be part of a supportive group as you find the joy within. Then check out our upcoming program Tapping into the Joy within: Reconnect with your creative joyful self.

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Sometimes we can get overwhelmed. That doesn’t make us weak or bad or wrong it’s just more than we can handle in the moment. Doesn’t mean we can’t handle it or that we aren’t capable. It’s just a lot. That can happen when we are lacking sleep and stressors come at us in all directions. Just like the weather we sometimes get backed up but it will clear eventually.

When we are doing the work our brains create new neural pathways. We then start using new behaviours and we feel good. Then when a high level of stress happens, usually a lot of things as once, we revert back to our old behaviours. We think we failed, we haven’t. Our system goes “your new stuff isn’t working so we will bring in the old stuff”. Thank goodness we have a back up plan. The old pathways get overgrown but can be found in times of deep stress.

The trick is to recognize what’s happened and when safe to do so bring back your new strategies to reinforce the learning and understand you were overwhelmed or caught off guard. That is a normal happening. Freedom comes with the recognition and switching back to the new behaviours.

Life can be hard. When we are in the mode of people pleasing, perfectionism, having to do more, be more to fit in or belong it can drain our energy. When we choose to do the work it’s hard in the transition as we may start losing friends and relationships. It makes us want to stop it all and stay where we are.

We can have a good life with both but one path is fear based and the other from Love in the bigger sense. Choosing to find our center, be grounded and sure in who we are fuels us, where there is less chance of burnout.