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If you keep thinking the same thoughts, following the same routine, having the same set of beliefs: FORGET ABOUT CHANGE

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Men's Conference-Ambassodors for Good | Debswana

I had a privilege to be a speaker at the men's conference hosted by Debswana through ambassadors for good programme. The conference was so impactful. We touched on issues like;

Gbv
Marriage
Singleness
Cohabitation
Mental health
Importance of a father figure and many more.

This month we celebrate men and encourage them to be responsible and visit the hospital as a way of prioritizing their health. We stand against Testicular and prostate cancers, Gbv, su***de and other social ills.

WHO AM I?

We are living in the times where everyone is obsessed with being relevant to status core. Finding significance and meaning is the drive of the day. This has led many into error and regrettable choices that keeps them relevant yet pains in secret. Knowing who you are is critical to finding your real meaning of existence and singles one out of the majority. It helps you build integrity-being one with yourself. It helps set standards for yourself and determines your character. Character is putting yourself in the prison of your own convictions.

Who are you? Whose idea are you?

Inner conversation

We either thrive or suffer in the mind than in any other thing. Internal conversation matters the most. That little thought is a seed that will grow into a big tree. The question is what kind of tree are you growing. Every thought/action is a vote towards building either a disempowering, sabotaging or empowering habit. You are a thought away from your doom or rising, and of course you are the captain. It is easier to reject what you are told than what you tell yourself.

The Mind is the Master

Repetition is reinforcement. Through the process of long term potentiation the brain rewires and strengthen neural pathways in response to the action repeated. Every action is a vote towards building either a positive or negative habit. Ultimately, the behavior will run on autopilot. The mind, brain and body are connected, the mind being the master. After sometime, the body can be so conditioned to behavior or habit and start being the boss. One may try and change but the body will say "NO YOU ARE OUT OF SCHEDULE". The body now wants to rule. Many here loose the battle, the mind is no longer in control but the body. Whatever the body say, they listen and obey. This is very dangerous and can take you to the grave before time. Remember it is easy to build a bad habit, but breaking it, is like bringing down mount Everest.

You have the choice and responsibility. No body owes you to make decisions for you. The truth is, if you get yourself into problems by not taking charge over your habits and choices, you are the one to suffer most.

the mind be the master, not the body! Pelo potsane.

Even God says, "I put before you life and death; choose life". The most dangerous gift God gave man is the "Power of Choice".

JUST PUT THE HAMMER AWAY

Inner critic is one the deadliest problems that destroy many. It clutters the mind and create mental blockages. There will always be that negative voice that condemns you. Some call it the annoying roommate. This roommate will always make the loudest noise. Until you change your perception about "him" you will suffer unending heartaches and stress. No one is perfect, but many look at their imperfections as monsters that needs a four pounds hammer. JUT STOP FIXING YOURSELF and appreciate who you are. Magnifying your weaknesses more than strengths will shatter you. DROP THE HAMMER and stop being hard on yourself. This does not mean sit down and not changing what you need to change. If you drive the nail to hard, it might break and not serve its purpose. Allow your true self to surface.

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I am Oarabile Pheto, a certified life coach specializing in Mindset change as key to transformational living. We service companies, individuals, groups, schools and many more.We are at your service.

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With our thinking, we create who we are. With our thoughts we make the world within. The world without is a true reflection of the world within. Be intentional about managing your thought life. Every thought is lifting or pulling you down.

PROGRAM YOUR DAY

Your morning is the best time to rewire your brain and tune it into the desired winnings or failures of the day. Remember you have the power of choice. Take full control and move yourself in the right direction alingned with your true heart desires. life does not just happen, it is created by thoughts, words, actions and habits.

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Life is an Adventure

A quote by Carl Rogers: "Life is a direction not a destination." Indeed life is an exciting journey to be enjoyed, but many experience frustrations, anxiety and failures that bring them down. The reason being the kind of mindset they view all these obstacles with. The true meaning of life is found in both negative and positive experiences gained on the way, not on the ultimate result required. Do not focus on the end goal, rather allow the continuous process of growth, learning and transformation to cultivate a well refined personality in you. Appreciate each moment, not just the final outcome. Many give up on their dreams, talents and visions because of failure to appreciate little wins, failures that bring experience and mountains that bring resilience.



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