Deb Rose - Curated

All the feels with this one! 🥹

Let's talk about the drift in friendship.

There wasn't a falling out.
Nothing terrible happened.
You're not mad, and you're fairly certain they aren't either, but there is a space between you. You've lost touch, you've grown apart, you've moved on.
Sometimes you feel guilty about it, and sometimes you wonder what exactly happened, but mostly you just hope they're doing good and that they know how much you will always care about them.

That's the drift.

There's nothing wrong with you for losing touch, there's nothing bad or disloyal about growing apart. It's a natural part of life. Your paths were side by side, and at some point the reached a fork in the road. They stayed in their lane, and you stayed in yours.

There's no hard feelings, no wishing of anything, but well, it's just life.
Shake off the guilt, let go of the shame, release the questions.
Let's normalize the drift. Let's normalize cheering on the friends we've lost touch with from a distance. Let's normalize being completely for someone with out being in their life anymore.

That friendship, it mattered, so much, and losing touch doesn't detract from that one tiny bit.

Some friendships are for seasons, and some are for the long haul. Both are precious. Celebrate the friendships you have now, and be open to the ones coming, life is full of surprises, and your path is exactly where you belong.

Love,
Jess

REMEMBER WHO THE F**K YOU ARE 👊🏼

3 years ago I embarked on a journey of self discovery and life enjoyment. I was in a dark place aftersome personal issues i had experienced and i needed a bit of a reality check, some self reflection and some serious self love. Things were great in my little Deb world, i was learning to set boundaries, to say No, and to come out of my shell and reconnect with myself and who i was outside of the Mum and Wife i had been for many years.

2 years ago, I received a promotion at my workplace.
Congratulations and excitement was the initial reaction for myself and those around me. I was already living my best life after a year of making myself a priority and this just seemed like a natural progression into what my forties was turning out to be.

But unfortunately, through fault of my own (and also not), i lost sight of the previous 12 months and what i had worked so hard on, and the next two years that followed became all work work work and no play. And Toxic. I became a recluse, only leaving the house to work and minimal other occasions.

Whilst my nearest and dearest colleagues kept me functional at work, quietly, I was falling in the deepest depression I had seen to date. My day to day was filled with constant anxiety, panic and questions of my self worth started to creep in.

But fast forward to now, and things are looking up! I had to make some difficult changes in order to get back to the person i want to be and so far so good!

So my lovelies, if what i have said applies to you also in some way, then I encourage you to take this image and stick it where you see it every single day!

Live by this and always..
REMEMBER WHO THE F**K YOU ARE 👊🏼

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