Alternative Dispute Resolution, Mediation, Facilitation, Arbitration
We provide 30 years of legal, judicial, and mediation experience with a proactive focus to conflict resolution. We offer a cost efficient alternative to tumultuous, prolonged litigation, creating an atmosphere that encourages safe, honest and positive communication of ideas and emotions. Our clients are varied: "pro se" (unrepresented by counsel), represented by counsel, or simply individuals or companies in need of informal dispute resolution. They come from both sides of the litigation fence: plaintiff, defense/insurance representatives. We mediate all types of matters: Domestic Disputes, (pre and post divorce decree), Collections and Contract Disputes, Employment/Workplace Conflict, Landlord Tenant/HOA Matters, Personal Injury and Product Liability Matters. We accommodate our clientele wherever possible: we mediate in our offices (located statewide); we provide telephone mediations for those unable to travel, or for those who live out of state. If the circumstances allow, and all parties agree, we are happy to mediate at a client’s offices to accommodate the particular logistics. We have mediated matters from Hawaii to Florida, and in many states in between. Robyn is a former California Judge Pro Tem, defense litigator, appellate attorney and former national in-house counsel to a major Japanese insurance company. She was a member of an appellate team addressing the Right to Refuse Medical Treatment. Licensed to practice law in California since 1987, and practicing in Colorado (single client, limited admission) since 2007, she has been consistently recognized as a top lawyer (Martindale Hubbell AV® Preeminent® Peer Review Rated Attorney since 1992, Martindale Hubbell AV® Preeminent® Bar Register of Preeminent Women Lawyers, 2011), and as a top mediator (Martindale Hubbell AV® Preeminent® Client Rated since 2009)*. She has authored several articles dealing with a variety of mediation issues, been a radio guest speaker for conflict resolution, trained/coached for several basic and advanced mediation courses, and has written a regular column on conflict resolution for the LittletonGazette.com. She is a member of the Jefferson County Access to Justice Committee, the Jefferson County Mediation Services Advisory Committee, and a member of the Jefferson County Mediation Services Program. She is the Vice President/President - elect, and a Professional Member of theMAC (The Mediation Association of Colorado), and a member of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators. She was recently admitted to practice before the United States Supreme Court. (* AV® Preeminent ™ is a certification mark of Reed Elsevier Properties Inc., used in accordance with the Martindale-Hubbell certification procedures, standards and policies. Martindale-Hubbell® Client Review Rated Lawyer of Preeminent 5 out of 5 as of 28 May 2009. [Date of latest review published on martindale.com and lawyers.com] www.martindale.com/ratings)
Mission: "Charting the Course" - Providing forward looking, proactive dispute resolution services, we assist parties in conflict to resolve their issues without painful, protracted and expensive litigation costs.
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Never, EVER, underestimate the power of an honest, heartfelt apology...Even if it's long overdue.
Kudos to both these brave individuals who were strong enough to give and receive an apology for such ugly behavior. Well done.
This is a story about how it’s never too late to apologize.
ChadMichael Morrisette recently got a message on Facebook.
It was a message totally out of the blue.
It was a message he never expected to get.
More on that in a moment.
But first you need to understand the back story.
20 years ago ChadMichael was bullied when he was in grade school in Alaska.
"I was bullied for being gay.
I was bullied for being little.
I was bullied for every reason someone is bullied.
It was awful.
I couldn't even walk to classes without an adult escort or friends with me."
One of the people who bullied ChadMichael was Louie Amundson.
And the other day, 20 years later, Amundson sent ChadMichael a note.
It stopped ChadMichael in his tracks.
Here's what the note said:
"I was recently talking with my 10 year old daughter about bullies.
She asked me if I ever bullied anyone and sadly I had to say “yes”.
What came to mind is how sh---y and mean I was to you when we were in Jr. High.
I want to apologize.
If we lived in the same state I would apologize to your face.
I don’t even know if you remember, but I do and I am sorry."
ChadMichael said he was deeply touched by the apology.
And the next day he wrote back to Louie.
"I’m quite moved by this.
Thank you and accept your apology.
In 20 years you are the only person to apologize for being a bully to me when we were younger.
I hope you can proudly tell your daughter that you have also apologized for it, and that we are good.
It’s amazing what 20 years and children can do to us, no?
Thank you again, and I hope you stand up to bullying anytime you see it.
Have a great day!"
How cool is that.
Louie Amundson was later interviewed and told Yahoo Parenting that he was humbled, ashamed, and relieved all at once.
“I owed him that apology, he did not owe me his forgiveness.
The fact that he was able to forgive me showed that I may have been the bigger kid, but he is the bigger man.
I hope it shows that people can change, that life can change.
(And) I think people can learn a lot from the way Chad handled this.
He forgave me.
To me, that says so much about his character."
It sure does.
But apologizing also says a lot about Louie’s character.
I think a lot of people could learn from BOTH of them.
Quotes courtesy of Queerty and Yahoo Parenting.
And one last note.
I've started a new segment on the KTVU YouTube page called
"Let's be Frank."
It's me talking about things that I hope people will find interesting and thought provoking.
The subject this week is how my world changed, because of what happened in Berkeley when I was in the 5th grade.
Here's the link:
Never stop believing you can get through anything.
For those who volunteer for something about which they are passionate, you are an inspiration to those who want to do more, and a blessing to those who receive your gift of effort. Thank you for all you do.
SaddleUp! is having a new volunteer orientation on Saturday March 21 from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 noon. We hope you will join us. Don't forget to share this on your own timeline. The more the merrier.
Don't you wish we could all collaborate this way?
Eso es compañerismo
For many attorneys who have recently decided to expand their practice to mediation - remember, you remain an attorney and are bound by those rules as well. This is a good read for those thinking it's a fast, easy transition to "just do mediation."
It's tougher than you think.
Pick one - It certainly will beat giving up chocolate!
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Amen. Mediation is important and a critical tool in anyone's chest. It's worthy of a fee. Those who want free mediation have less skin in the game, less respect for the process and are not as invested in resolving the conflict.
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And isn't this a better mindset with which to start 2015?
With all my heart, I hope that divorcing parents can find a way to positively transition from spouses to responsible, respectful co-parents. To hide a child from a parent simply to punish the other spouse, can hurt the child in unimaginable ways.
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I can't decide if #2 or #1 is more persuasive. Thank goodness my daughter did not make me resort to any of these options. And so I can say it in public - my daughter is awesome!
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Maybe they thought she ordered her coffee "animal style."
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That's music to my ears.
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Recently, I had two cases where an apology meant everything. For an apology to work for Party A: 1) it must be sincere 2) Party B must be ready to actually provide a sincere apology, but most importantly; 3) Party A must be truly ready to RECEIVE the apology. A premature "oh, Sorry" can actually do more harm than good.
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Now, I have the highest regard for the highest Court in the land, and I have been honored to be admitted to that Bar in court, en banc - but I have to say - this is hysterical!
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I don't know whether to fall down laughing or start crying. As if divorced parents don't have enough on their plate.
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Really? Is this the legal version of "affluenza" ?
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This is such valuable information and time well spent. Thinking about representing yourself? Get informed, so you can make informed decisions.
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Ugh. This kind of thing gives lawyers a very black eye, and it is the last thing a victim of domestic violence needs.
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Okay. Those who know me, know I encourage couples to think of divorce as a transition into a new, positive phase of life - as co-parents or just as individuals. Some obviously take this concept to a whole new level. (Warning, some cakes are more explicit than others.)
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There is an enormous concern over the Unauthorized Practice of Law, especially for those who practice mediation. What's the problem? People of low or modest income don't want to spend what money they have on lawyers with other agendas. Parties want and need affordable methods to resolve their disputes; Legal Zoom helps them achieve that on the front end - Mediation helps them the rest of the way.
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As if divorce isn't hard enough....
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Sigh..... once again, there is never a thought that mediation may actually assist the civil justice system in resolving cases that could be resolved efficiently, effectively and without unreasonable legal expenses. Sounds more like tripping over two left feet than change afoot.
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I'm thinking I have the last two covered pretty well - How about you? Encourage your daughter to think about all these promises.
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Unmanaged conflict can escalate to a point of no return (legally or otherwise). Could mediation have helped? If not, then it's nice to know there is a legal process to curb someone who believes this is the only way to react to a breakup.
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HOA disputes like this can embarrass an entire community, cost thousands of dollars and in the end, this most likely resulted from an emotionally based conflict that could have been resolved by early mediation. Some day, HOA's will learn.
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Wait - what if you're self-employed?
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Some good information in these entrepreneurial times.
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Boy, I sure hope they mediated this case - the legal fees alone were probably astronomical.
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I'm thinking this is a perfect situation where mediation could help resolve an issue before it just gets further out of hand. The first problem? Having a conflict that has escalated to the point of having to call a news station for resolution.
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